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Thank you for your message, and for highlighting a few types of domination that are worthwhile for me to consider. Maybe we are now at a place in this D/s relationship where it is getting exceedingly important to set some rules for how She and I want to proceed. Even as a sub, consent is important for the relationship to be manageable in the long term. To revert to my original question, maybe a good discussion to have is what type and level of control She expects to have over different aspects of my personal life. Perhaps She will say that this is my own business, in which case I wouldn't have to bring up the touchy subject. Thank you for providing this perspective!

@henlan @Moden slikken M @Jernsvinet @Den_glade_amatør Thank you so much for all your input. I see your recommendations are as varied as my own thoughts on the subject Both ways of dealing with it has it's merits, but also disadvantages. In one way, as this is a paid relationship, I wouldn't really be obligated to inform Her of my activities. But on the other hand, I feel I want to be completely open and honest with my activities. But perhaps She also prefers to keep our relationship separate from our personal lives. But, a Dominant woman (and She is completely Dominant to Her core) will usually want a certain level of devotion to be expressed. Especially when the relationship is a little more involved than just the physical sessions. If I bring it up, I'm sure She'd say I can do what I want. But I can't help but worrying that it will anyways affect Her views and our dynamic. But even a Dom/sub relationship should have some equality. If She requires complete submission (i.e. Ownership), then maybe I'm not the right sub for Her, and She's not the right Domme for me? At the start of our relationship, I had actually booked a session with another Domina (before I met this Mistress). The session was planned to occur a few weeks after my first meeting with the Mistress. I asked her if She thought I should go ahead with it. She responded that it would be up to me, and that She didn't want to completely control my exploration and that She knew I'd come back to Her eventually In the end, I cancelled the other appointment, as it felt right for me. I still have no desire to visit another Domina, but some nice and relaxing vanilla sex is something different, and something I know I will never have with Her. It's now over a month until our next session, so I will have plenty of time to think about the approach. Thanks again for sharing your thoughts!

Hello dear forum visitors! I write this post in English, to spare you my Swedish or a badly google-translated Danish - men du er velkommen til at svare på Dansk! I have been seeing a Domina for a couple of months. She is a ProDomme, which means I pay her for her time during the sessions. Over the past months we have built a strong connection and She has helped me immensely to learn new things about myself. She is a very important person in my life and I deeply cherish Her the bond we have. But I also have other needs. I'd like to visit the beautiful women of Copenhagen, and the FKK clubs in Germany. The Domina and I haven't gone into any agreements or even discussed my life outside of our interactions, but I can't help but feel that I would be breaking a commitment (even though nothing has been spoken) if I do visit other ladies. My gut feeling says that I should just bring it up for discussion at an appropriate time. If I did bring it up, I'd do what She suggest, regardless if She's fine with it or if She'd prefer I don't. But I worry that even having this discussion would affect the bond we built and our dynamic. Maybe it would be better just to compartmentalize the Domina/sub relationship and the rest of my life into separate spheres, and just keep it to myself. But I don't feel right about keeping it secret as I'd be hiding something from Her. The Domina/sub relationship is built heavily on trust, and I don't want to gamble with it. I know that the decision is my own in the end, but I'd like to get input from the many wise members of the forum to help me decide how to approach this predicamen I have put myself in. Thank you!

Per Swedish law, it's NOT illegal to buy sexual services abroad. Only within Sweden. There are proposals like that from time to time in the parliament, but thankfully those have so far not gone any further. In Norway however, the purchase of sexual services by Norwegian citizens is illegal, regardless if it happens in Norway or outside. So the Norwegian legislation is even more restrictive/oppeessive than the Swedish in this aspect. So far. In both Sweden and Norway, foreign citizens can get prosecuted for purchasing sexual services. In the same way as if you'd break any other law while being on a trip in another country.

I have had the pleasure of attending https://www.fetisch-institut.com/deu/ in Berlin where I had a session with Luna von Theben. It was my first real femdom session but she was a real pro and extremely hot, beautiful and dominating. Facilities were good and clean. We played only in "The Suite" which was quite small and basic, but well suited for an introductory session. Contact and discussion with Mistress Luna was very easy clear and quick. Can only recommend.

I always recommend Baleri Deep if you want a great golden shower. https://escortguide.dk/P/spicy-baleri-deep-throat-queen-find-me-in-onlyfans-54629.html Apart from that she's super great in many other ways as well. Don't know if she'd consider receiving though.

Have you checked the ISG section about Spain http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/forum/forumdisplay.php?204-Spain? I have no own experience, but I think from what I have read, there aren't any brothels as like in Denmark or Germany. There are escorts that do outcall and I think some of these strip clubs you should have no problem finding working girls. Will be interested in seeing if someone has more detailed information.

Well, we didn't get around to fisting this time around. Instead she slammed me good with her strapon. I tried it once before, but this time I was so much more prepared. It was an intensely pleasurable experience. And we might get around to the fisting part next time we meet (end of January). About the cleaning process, I was a bit apprehensive so I spent most of the day flushing and flushing. It went well to do the full 30 sec fill as per s popular guide. But in the end there was a little bit of stuff seeping out during the pegging. Mistress was ok with it so no worry, it's mostly in my head I think. I have an idea for next time. After I clean out, I'll fuck myself with a dildo for a bit as in my experience that seems to make the last bits run out Even though I've been pegged before, this was really my "awakening" to the pleasures of having a beautiful Mistress fucking my ass to her liking. Can't wait for next time.

Hello everyone! And especially those with experience from anal fisting (giving or receiving). And sorry about the English, but I figured it's better than Swedish I have a date with a Domina in the near future, and she suggested we try fisting. I was immediately aroused, but a little apprehensive. Especially, I want to prepare as well as I can in order to make it a success. I have not had much anal action before, but have been using plugs and dildos to stretch the last month. I can fist myself with four fingers to the knuckles, so I'm sure the petite Domina will be physically able to get her hand in there after some warmup. I have read a lot of guides with tips for how to prepare, and it all comes down to taking it slow, using lots and lots of lube and listening to your body. Which I fully intend to do. But as the guides tend to be quite general, I want to ask those of you with experience if you have any "pro tips" for how to increase the likelihood of success? Some particular questions I have: - Our session is booked for 3 hours. Not all of it will be spent with ass play, but I think a lot of it will be If I want to be sure to be fully clean to minimize risk of poopy hands, do I need to do the "full cleanse" enema or is the "quick version" sufficient? I don't think there will be any depth play, but I guess you never know... - If a full cleanse is recommended, do you have any pro tips for this procedure? I have only ever done the quick cleanse before, but I intend to test the full cleanse at least once before the session. - Will much appreciate any other advice to help me make this debut memorable in the positive sense. Thank you so much!

Kort och gott, besök någon av klinikerna (jag har själv erfarenhet av Seductiongirls och Pussy Galores) och välj en pige som verkar passa dig. Berätta gärna för henne att det är din första gång som sexköpare så ska hon nog ta väl hand om dig. Jag började själv för drygt två år sedan just på Seductiongirls och en helt ny och fantastisk värld öppnade sig. Så tveka inte, bara för det

Really interesting thread! I know the feeling As I'm living in Sweden and don't want to risk legal problems, I always have to travel abroad to have some paid fun. I am lucky in that I have a job that has a certain amount of travel in it, which I can use to mask my trips. But sometimes my actual destination is different from the "legitimate" destination I say I will be going to. For me this really adds to the excitement, and can be a bit scary when getting the flight back home from the "actual" destination - what if I run into someone I or my wife knows??? So far it hasn't happened, but as I go on, the risk increases. I have a few decent excuses I can give, that would at least be semi-plausible It's an exciting feeling being somewhere where avsolutely noone knows who you are, and no one knows you're even in that city. I've been to Berlin a few times under cover, and walking around Checkpoint Charlie you can really feel like a cold war spy. The wife and I have separate economies, and I have a low online profile without any social media. This helpd in keeping my cover intact. What I find a little challenging is to keep my mouth shut Travelling like this gives a lot of new impressions, and sometimes you get a reflex to talk about something, or add to a conversation. So far I have managed not to speaknout if line. I try to keep in mind that "silence is golden".

Recently spent a few days in Stuttgart. The city is "flying under the radar" with regards to FKK clubs, so I wanted to try it for myself. I visited two clubs The Luxor which is in Echterdingen, just one S-bahn stop from the airport. And also Sakura which is in Böblingen, southerst of Stuttgart but easily accessible (about half an hour from airport) via S-bahn. There are decent budget hotels near to each location. The Luxor Arrived at about 19.30. The place is medium-sized and is decorated in an oriental theme. I never use the sauna but there's one dry sauna and one steam room. Also a jacuzzi. The wellness area is just to the side of the main lounge, so not really as separate as at Mainhattan or Artemis for example. Food was boring and bland. Lineup was decent, about 30-40 girls. Not much different from any other FKK, some lookers, some average and some less attractive. But tastes differ between clients of course. All I spoke to were Romanians. Went with two girls. First one had black straight hair, enhanced lips and tits. She quoted me the prices. 100€ for basic cbj, licking and fucking. Gfe pack for 200€ including kissing, bbbj. Also had a full service pack with A+, cim, multicum 1 hour for 500€. Fucking was with condom for all packs. I went with gfe pack for 200€. Ot was a decent experience, apart from her moving away from me when licking. She really avoided me which was a turnoff and I've never had it happen before. Also she interrupted in the middle of the session to try and upsell A+ for another 100 which I declined. Fucking was good, but overall too much upsell and too poor service. Second girl was petite with small A-tits and straight brown hair. Really pretty. Went for basic for 100€. She behaved mich the same when I was licking her, moving away from me. I never had this done before, so must be a tactic at the club... Finally after some boring fucking where she held my dick in place, I ejaculated but didn't climax. Again, service was poor and I was glad I took the basic pack. Overall assessment - will not return. I could consider going back if I had a quick layover in Stuttgart as you can get to the club from the airport literally in 15 minutes by S-bahn. Sakura Arrived few minutes after opening. The club is absolutely beautiful in a modern decor. There are three floors. Ground level is entrance, reception, lounge, bar and restaurant. Upstairs are the rooms. Downstairs are locker rooms and relax area with dry and steam sauna. During my visit they were putting in a new pool/jacuzzi. Will probably be nice. There is also s quiet room and the normal massage room. From the relax area you can access a small garden, which also has access to the main lounge. The main lounge, bar and restaurant are non-smoking. There is a decently sized smokers lounge as a separated part (with glass walls) of the main lounge. Food was great, at breakfast there was bread, cheese and sandwich meats. Also eggs, sausage and some other things. At dinner there was a chili-con-carne and also a steak which seemed of high quality beef. Also salmon wraps, some salad and for dessert - churros. All very tasty. The likeup was good imo. At the start of the day there were several older (40-45+) women who seemed to focus on the older german regulars in attendance. There were also a handful of younger good looking girls of different appearance. As the day advanced more girls arrived and when I left at about 19.00, I'd say there were around 30 girls. Most of them very pretty. I had three rooms with four girls. All were really good, with great service from the girls. Base price is 100€ with bbbj, kissing, licking etc. Cim would be extra, dont know how much. Minimal upsell! First room, with a bulgarian gypsy. Real gfe feeling with intense dfk, very responsive in licking. Good owo, great fucking. She was really fun, even though my german and her english were equally bad. But we made do with the language of love 100€ +tips. Second girl was a nice girl from Moldova. Had a good chat in the lounge and her English was perfect. Big naturals. She gave me a great bbbj sitting in a chair in the room. Then I returned the favour. It was really intimate and she seemed to enjoy my licking. Such a conteast from the night before at Luxor! Had a great room with her. 100€+tips. Last room was with a blonde girl from Hungary. Enhanced breasts, also great English. Really pretty face and hot body. She thought we should invite her friend, to which I agreed. Her friend was a pretty brunette girl from Moldova, small A naturals. Had a great threesome where both girls were really involved and eager to please. Even some light touching between the girls. Finished with the blonde girl, and I feel I was unfair to the brunette, so I will have to meet her again next time Cost 100+tips x2. Summary If you are looking for an FKK in Stuttgart I highly recommend you visit Sakura. Great girls, great facilities. One of my best FKK experiences to date. I'd say that Sakura is similar to Mainhattan in feel and lineup. But I think it's even better actually. If you prefer Sharks (huge club and lineup) you might be disappointed though. I am putting Sakura into my rotation of FKK clubs. I'd recommend to give The Luxor a miss, unless you are pressed for time and have a layover.

I am very interested in meeting Mistress Anastasya, will be planning a date for next time I visit beautiful Copenhagen. May I ask if any of you could divulge what part of Rödovre she is in? Is it fairly close to an S-train stop? Would help a lot in my planning.

You, my dear sir, are on a noble quest First thing to know is that all women are different in this regard. There's no one technique that's guatanteed to work on every girl. There's a ton of video material out there (for example https://xhamster.com/videos/how-to-lick-pussy-tutorial-xhdMEWq) on the subject. This can help you find some techniques that work for you, that you later can put into practice on the girls you are with. Then listen to her moans, feel if her clit is swelling, her general response... Most girls will indicate when you hit the spot, and when you ate totally off. As always, communication is important, so you might want to just ask the girl what she prefers. Some like gentle licking, some wants it strong right on the clit. If I should give one advice that usually works for me is to start slow and gentle. Go around the whole pussy, don't jump straight to the clit! Pretend you are making out with the pussy like with a long lost lover. Use not only your tongue, but also your lips. You can even apply a little suction too bring more blood to the area and making it more sensitive Then after a while, focusing more on the clit is usually what brings the girl to orgasm. Maybe some of our delightful pink users will come to the thread and say something completely different, which would prove my first point But I'd be really interested to hear what they have to say. I myself am a real cunnilingus lover. Sex for me is not really complete if I'm not able to lick pussy.

I was, like you, thinking a lot about it for a long time. I really am an "ass man" and like to play with the butt and give black kisses. So obviously I was intrigued by trying anal. I booked it a few times but unfortunately, nervousness made it not work as I got soft when trying to put it in. However, a while back I was at an FKK and booked anal with a girl. This time it worked well, and it was mentally really exciting. On the other hand, I didn't really "feel" anything special with the actual penetration. Honestly for me, vaginal intercourse easily gives as much or more stimulation for the penis. Now, my sample size is 1, so maybe other girls would feel differently. But for me, it's not really worth the extra cost. But in the end, only you can decide if it's worth it for you.

This lady https://lady-estelle.de/en/session/ is very versatile. She even has branding on her menu card, so should be a sure bet. I have tried getting sessions (not so extreme) with her on a few occasions, but our schedules never matched. She prefers to be contacted on whatsapp. Good luck!

Thanks for a nice review! It really makes me want to go back again I think we must have been there in the same week (I was there Monday, Wednesday. And Thursday for a quickie ) If you saw a guy lying on a sunbed reading, chances are it was me! One question, do you remember the name of the girl you met that you described in my quote above? Sounds like a good girl.

Some that I know of, but haven't visited myself: https://www.libertyberlin.com/ https://www.salon-prestige-berlin.de/ https://ginas-tango-rosa.de/ I have also looked at "New Van Kampen", but seems their homepage has been and is down: https://newvankampen.de/ Not sure if New Van Kampen still operate or not.

I have been to Artemis in Berlin today 7/6 2023. A few updates. - Now that the terrace area and pool (decent temperature) is open, I see they have s self-service drinks station for water and soft drinks. - There's also a jaccuzzi, one sauna and one steam room in the terrace area. - A lot of really hot girls, but also quite a few not so hot. The average is still very good looking in my opinion. - Price wise, girls were quite upselling today. I was in a good mood and followed along with adding some owo and b2b massage. But it brought the price from the base 70 for 30 minutes, up to 140 for 30 minutes. I'm sure you can still get ok service for 70, but it'd be covered bj and sex. Maybe licking. I ran into some girls that said no to licking overall. - Berlin is a cool city. Many options besides Artemis. Many apartment brothels etc. However it would be nice with a competing fkk. Competition is always good, right? - Lots of Swedish people at the club. I have heard Swedish spoken at all my 4 visits to the club. Havent heard any Danish, I think the Hamburg clubs are more popular for you, as they are closer.

My two cents are that, unfortunately, you are impacted by the (often/sometimes) low quality of other ads. What I mean is that ads are often ambiguous and wise from experience, the experienced client feels forced to confirm services and other details directly with the girl. For example, certain services might be listed on the ad, but still not offered. Some services might not be listed, so the client will have to ask if they are offered. Etc. This obviously does not explain why clients write just "Hej" or other nonsensical messages. I think that's better explained by an above poster. I would like to say that I find @Sexy Flora s ad to be ideal. Actually not too long, but very informative and should not really require much "back and forth" communication, except to ask/answer some really specific questions. I doubt that the majority of contributors on this forum belong to the caregory that fails to read your ad and follow the instructions. But I anyway hope that the community as a whole can make an effort to improve the communication. Ha en fortsatt fin vecka alla!

Nice review! I will be planning a trip to Aca Gold later this year. I am trying to build some experience across several clubs in order to find my favourite. To contribute, I have so far visited Artemis in Berlin, Mainhattan in Frankfurt and Sharks in Darmstadt (just south of Frankfurt). Here are my own personal opinions about these clubs. Mainhattan Medium-sized club with nice and good facilities. Good small garden with (cold) pool. About 15-20 ladies in daytime, increasing to 40-50 in the evenings. Ladies are very pretty for the most part. Age range from low 20's to high 30's. Most will be between 25 and 35. Most ladies are from romania. Variety, especially ethnic variety, is quite small. Most ladies are slim, tanned and either black hair or bleached blonde. Of course there ar exceptions. Weekdays can be a bit slower (except for Wednesdays which are Sauna Infusion days), but Friday night the party atmosphere increased. For me that's not so good as I prefer the relaxed atmosphere. Daytime and early evening, the club is perfect and very nice relaxing atmosphere. For sauna enthusiasts, there are two normal saunas and one steam sauna. Price range: 30 min basic suck and fuck with condom should cost 50€. If you want to lick or kiss that's gonna increase it to 100€. Not sure if blowjob without would be included. Food is good and there's self-service on water and soft-drinks, which I really appreciate. This club is my favorite together with Artemis, mainly because of good facilities, pretty girls and nice atmosphere. Artemis Large club with great facilities. Indoor and outdoor pool, various saunas and also a hamam room (which I think costs extra). Entry is quite expensive at 90€, and girls' basic price is 70€ which for me included also licking. Kissing is 20 extra. I have only been there weekdays from afternoon until about midnight. About 40 ladies present, and the variation (especially ethnic variety) is higher than at the other clubs. I met germans, brazilian (?), russian. In general, the girls seem a bit older than at the other clubs, but not by far and there are of course also younger ladies available. Facilities ar top notch, they even have a small gym. In the relax section there's also a bar and you can sit there quite undisturbed and reload between sessions. Food was ok, but lacked in variety and there's no self-service on softdrinks. This is also a favorite club, mainly due to variety in lineup and top notch facilities. Sharks Very large club with large garden. However I don't like the layout so much as there's basically just one large room to hang out in. There is an area upstairs with jaccuzzis and some lounge chairs andbother seating opportunities. This is sort of the relax area, however girls frequently come to approach you when resting. Girls are on average very pretty and decent variety in age and appearance. Overall younger lineup than at Artemis. However the vast majority of ladies are Romanian. In weekends youncan apparently expect 100+ girls in attendance. Daytime maybe around 40-50. Standard price is 100€ for 30 min, which usually can include blowjob without condom and licking. Kissing may or may not be extra. Food is plentiful and quite varied. They also have a dessert cabinet in the afternoon which is pretty nice. No self-service for soft drinks, you have to queue at the only bar which is notoriously slow. Of the three clubs I visited, this is my least preferred. Mainly due to the club layout and the fact there's no good place to relax without getting approached. Also, even though there's a lot of girls, the (ethnic) variety is quite low. Conclusion I hope my ramblings can be of use. Overall I think it's down to personal preferences which club you'd prefer, and also what day/time to visit. Daytime tend to be more relaxed, but also less women, however I have always been able to find good girls around the clock. In the evenings, it tends to also be a lot more men so there is more competition for rooming with the top girls. On my list to try in the near future is The Luxor and Sakura in Stuttgart, then also Aca Gold.

Hej alle! Undskyld min Svensk och dårlig försök til Dansk, jag prövar att lära mig Jag vill fråga vad ni tycker om detta scenario: - jeg har booket et appointment med en GP nu på Lördag - nu ser jag på en av hennes annonser att hon ska åka på ferie i et par uger - jeg har skrivit till henne på whatsapp och frågat om vi stadigt har et aftale, men beskedet har inte blivit levererat eller läst på 24 timmar Skulle ni tänka att vi stadigt hade en aftale, eller skulle ni tänka att det är inställt? Jag har blivit bedt om at bekräfte aftalet dagen innan (alltså imorgen), så måske ska jag bara vänta till då och se ifall jag får kontakt på whatsapp? Problemet är at hvis det nu blir aflyst, så vill jag gärna boka en annan pige i god tid. Silly question maybe... Men tak likväl.

Jag var 41 och är nu 43 (snart). Liksom trådstartaren är det enda jag ångrar att jag inte började tidigare Har haft få många fräcka upplevelser och mött så många fina och intressanta kvinnor med vilka jag haft många sjove samtal. Mitt liv är så mycket rikare sedan jag började träffa glädjepiger

Jeg svarade alternativ 1. Och det är inte för att jag inte har haft goda upplevelser med de piger jag mött. Mest är det för att jag är så nysgerrig och det finns så många fina piger jag vill träffa. Dock är det en handfull av de jag träffat som jag känner att jag gärna skulle komma tillbaka till. Jag har ofta svårt att bestämma mig när det är dax att boka en träff...

Jo, det lyder ju lite "too good to be true". Nåväl, plenty of fish in the sea.