Rafaela

Thank you for the “very useful information” and I have no intention of disrespecting the moderators' rules, BUT personally I think it's good that some information is public so that people can think about it… At least I'm not writing "thank you" or a heart emoji… Good day for you too…

Yes, you can express your opinion even if it's strangely late... But excuse me, I don't believe you're "qualified" to give me advice - NOT in the sense of “have a degree”, but in the sense of “lacking life experience”… AND I don't doubt for a moment that your visit always had some bad intentions, and you yourself couldn't hide that with your excessively nervous behavior…. Rafaela

I will not include cancellation rules in my ad - because I don't have rules about cancellation - I act according to what I deem fair… I didn't find your cancellation honest and realized you weren't going to show up on the same day you scheduled… AND how do I know that? i can't reveal that – Because it would help those who try to deceive me, to change their "strategies,"…So…Let them continue using the same “methods”… Have a good day… Rafaela

Just to be clear, and I'm not referring to You, but to how things really are - The messages I don't reply to are because I realized something was wrong…OR I never receive them anymore ‘cause those numbers are already blocked for a long time, ‘cause at some point I received a "malicious" message that wasn't considered serious. I can't cite the countless examples of what I already know isn't a client or is at least suspicious, because I would help those trying to deceive me change their “strategy”…So let them continue using the same “method” and I'll get rid of them all… I don't argue, I block and maintain my peace… Any internet search mechanism to confirm name and address doesn't mean it's trustworthy because I've been deceived many times by people with registered names and addresses. I can't have any doubts about whether or not I can receive someone – if in doubt, I choose the option not to reply or, depending on the message, it is blocked directly. Rafaela

I know who you are, a young guy in a rock band t-shirt, and you told me you're from Odense. You were extremely nervous, so nervous I could feel your heart was going to jump out of your chest… You were trembling… and to try and manage the situation and help you relax, you went way beyond your scheduled time… But I don't really care about timing in general… I try to make things work out for the best… We talked a bit, and yes, I usually talk to people who visit me, especially if they lack initiative and need time to relax. And because you told me you had no sexual experience, it was something new for you, so I even gave you some advice – one of them was – “Never ask a woman if she had an orgasm”. Regarding me not accepting someone who cancels, yes, that's how it works with me. I don't know you, and you simply canceled a little before the scheduled time. And…Strangely, on the same day, someone else tried insistently to schedule an appointment at the same time… Mysteries… On the first visit you were very nervous, you didn't orgasm, and time passed with my attempts to make you orgasm… l didn't have sex with you for 40 or 45 minutes; the extra time was spent on your two showers and the time we spent talking to calm you down…I was very kind, considering it was your first visit with me. And I remained calm, as you yourself noticed. Actually, I'm very calm, but if I decide on something, I'm inflexible. And… in the second visit you behaved a little better…not so nervous, and everything went on time. But I already knew that if you didn't keep any other appointments, I wouldn't accept you again. I don't understand why you want to write about me after so much time, if it's to inform that : I don't accept people who cancel – I thank you for that… Regarding your statement that the sex was reasonable, and that you believe it takes time for a g.p to loosen up… I must tell you that honestly I don't need time to get used to someone and give my best performance… I'm naturally uninhibited… but…I believe that in your case you were really very nervous, and I sincerely felt that I was dealing with a perhaps (almost) virgin… Anyway, thank you for writing and especially for not being vulgar… And thank you also for telling the truth about – “that I didn't accept the money you offered me for the day you cancelled”. If I don't want to receive visits from someone I don't consider trustworthy, I also don't accept money for a service not provided… Rafaela

Yes, the theme is about the same cause and Hozier's music is a protest, and although he is a supporter of LGBT rights… he has never declared himself gay, but rather emphasizes (wisely) the importance of who a person is, and not their gender… The song “Smalltown Boy,” written by vocalist Jimmy Somerville, is based on his own life, and therefore his emotion is genuine and remarkable to me… The next song was the iconic romantic theme from the movie "Top Gun" - 1986. In addition to the Oscar, the song won the Golden Globe Award for Best Original Song in 1986. Take My Breath Away - Berlin (1986)

The song "Smalltown Boy," released by the band Bronski Beat in 1984, is considered an anthem of the "gay community" about isolation, homophobia and the need to escape to find freedom… The song reflects the personal experiences of vocalist Jimmy Somerville and narrates the journey of a young man who, after suffering harassment and rejection in his small town, decides to leave his home and family in search of acceptance… I love music from the 80s... Smalltown Boy - Bronski Beat (1984)…Feel this voice…

You don't need to feel guilty...if you acted honestly... You're writing this to inform that : This can happen...“The girl is new in town and it's possible she might receive a review”… And…I say: Of course...it can happen...and it will continue to happen... It's not just a review from a newly arrived girl that should be analyzed as true or false, it's all the details...about who wrote it... I've also been to a city for the first time, but I've never asked anyone to write a review for me…Each person acts according to what they deem coherent with.… Personally, the fact that someone is a long-time user doesn't necessarily mean they're trustworthy…it's necessary to analyze their behavior, how they use their reputation… Rafaela

Yes…I understand…writing can reveal something…but I connect more details (there are many, many details but I'll be brief) such as: The miracle of the girl arriving today and having a review on the same day or a few days later… Someone asking about a specific body type and “miraculously” the girl exists and the ad is active… The girl hasn't been on DK for months or even years BUT if she returns, by “coincidence” someone will ask about her and in a few days the review is ready… And even if there isn't a written review, the topic with many questions about the girl already does the advertising job…And so it goes...it never ends... And… “coincidentally”, the title of these ads reads - “The best reviews on eroguide”… And…then I wonder: reviews written by whom? Rafaela

I don't know what you reported or if it was considered suspicious… I see so many reviews and comments that are just advertising and haven't been deleted… Maybe you didn't see the same ones I see…or perceptions of what's fake or real are different…But if you have reported, congratulations on your good deed… Rafaela

I understand what you mean, and not everything needs to be said if the girl feels exposed for some reason… But the review, even if it doesn't have in-depth details… should have information that confirms or denies what is being advertised – such as physical appearance and services offered.. Rafaela

On a website where reviews are written, it's “evident” that most will write that reviews are important...after all, that's what they do - they write reviews/comments... Honest reviews (when the visit actually happened) are valid so that real, interested clients know, for example: If the girl is real, uses only her photos, without tricks, what the conditions of the workplace are like, if she provides a good service...in other words, if the service offered in the ad, as well as her physical appearance, matches reality... I use the review link in my ad to make it easier for the person (if they want to read it) to find out some information about me, after all, I work alone, I don't have sponsors/assistants who advertise for me… Reviews, repeated comments made for the same people and also written by the same users, in my perception, shouldn't be taken seriously because they function as an advertising service – a reminder that the girl is in town with an active ad… A review (despite already functioning as advertising) should always be genuine, after all, a serious customer won't want to waste time visiting someone only to discover that the information in the review is actually contradictory… The review should be spontaneous, that is, nothing pre-arranged, to preserve authenticity and effectively help those who call themselves "brothers"... Have a good day… Rafaela

Yes…and I didn't even realize they were Danish, only after researching who they are…I really like them…Thank you for sharing the video and the link. Another duo I like: Tragédie, is a French hip hop/R&B duo, formed in 1998 by rappers Silky Shai and Tizy Bone. Their song "Je Reste Ghetto," It's the main song from the movie “Ong Bak”, starring the famous Thai actor and martial artist Tony Jaa…known for his impressive Muay Thai fight scenes without stunt double. Je Reste Ghetto - Tragédie (2004)

This song is so beautiful…I find it moving and sensual at the same time… It generated great controversy at the time of its release (1985) due to its theme, about a missing young woman and the possibility of a crime, but it became a worldwide success, especially in Europe. Falco possessed immense charisma, manifested through his eccentric persona, unique style (he used to wear suits, sunglasses, hair pomade) and defiant attitude, becoming a pop icon… I love this video…what a beautiful performance…seeing a man singing so beautifully and with so much emotionI love the timbre of his voice... Jeanny - Falco (1985)…Wonderful…

Yes…I know a “laughing emoji” would give him points anyway…and would even help him win the post with the most likes of the day… But…for me there's a message if I laughed at a review that's considered fake… Report it to the moderators? Yes, definitely…But I hardly see anyone laughing or crying, on the contrary…always lots of likes…which makes a good impression on whoever writes the review…If most people always like it…who actually reports it… Rafaela

I've already looked at this website and personally, everything seems a bit "coordinated," arranged to only present a more positive view of the girl... But...Unreliable reviews exist on various websites…you just have to observe in some cases the same users advertising to the same people, or a new user is created, writes the review and older users (many believe they are trustworthy because of their time on the website) collaborate with the new user's information, both for positive and negative reviews and comments. You need to have a good perception of what is written... I notice when it's fake, but of course I don't get involved in it, but if I were a male user, I would at least use the emoji reactions - “sad” or “laughing” - to show that I don't believe the review. However, what I see are many likes that these users receive...so I must believe that there is nothing that can be done... Because either those who like it are complicit or they can't perceive what is fake or real… Have a good night… Rafaela

I love this song, by a Danish duo, I didn't know them... and from what I've read the song was a huge hit and won many awards...I don't understand a word but that doesn't matter... good music is universal...It’s great for dancing… Nik & Jay - Hot (2002) I'm not sure who Nik or Jay is...but the guy in the black pants is sexy... I usually say that...- A person is naturally sexy... there's no way to want to be… And if one person tries to imitate another, It will get even worse...

I don't offer Gfe for payment… I charge for kisses… (due to what I stated above) Gfe can't be something I should charge for...it happens through natural chemistry…

If she sold that service, as you “claim” and started a thread specifically for that...Then with the “promise” of the gfe service…some kissing is to be expected…Among other things...kissing is also part of the experience… But… I charge for kissing…and why? Because for me – kissing is more intimate than sex… For sex I use protection (condom)…and with kissing I feel the person's tongue…it's a lot of closeness… But I've kissed people without charging anything because the natural and unexpected chemistry was present and of course I take advantage of the situation… I personally don't believe in gfe…I think most ads sell it obviously as “bait” because they want to attract clients through vulnerability…that is, the client's need for deep contact beyond sex… I don't need to prove what I say - Just look at how many people report that they didn't receive the promised wet and deep kisses...Gfe is chemistry (smell, skin and taste) - So promising real gfe in the ad would be the same as saying: it's okay for me to kiss those who don't know how to kiss, such as - those who breathe inside my mouth while kissing… throw a lot of saliva inside my mouth...stick their tongue in any old way... No, sorry... let's get real... People say what others want to hear... just propaganda… Have a good day… Rafaela

Yes, I understand what you mean and I agree with you, it's crucial, and even if the message isn't offensive, but if it's not objective, doesn't contain the minimum required information that I politely requested, I don't respond and I block without regret… If you, as a client, want to feel secure and that you're making the right choice, you should receive an appropriate message, preferably with all the information that, for some reason…the person doesn't want to declare in the ad… But you should be aware that: many messages are not answered by the girl herself, so sometimes you may feel the bitter taste of being like "just another one in line”…It’s a matter of perception: The more you understand for yourself, the less you will be deceived… I can understand about a person just by reading how he (or she…) writes to me, just as I can also read without needing to open the message, so I leave the person without knowing any news, since the person chose to send me a message that isn't honest enough to receive a response. I once worked in a country where, as soon as I arrived, I let a friend (ex-friend, of course…) answer my phone (and I paid for it, I don't want anything for free) because I couldn't understand the language before. But I quickly gave up because, although she spoke fluently, she was terrible at answering, and when I realized that, I took the phone from her and started answering myself, even though I spoke a little incorrectly – it's better to be honest and say that I don't understand the language but show my personality and let the person feel secure that I am genuine. I find it polite for people to call each other by their chosen names. I avoid and don't respond to those who write to me : "Baby," "honey," and so many other things… ("Baby” is everyone…I'm Rafaela…) - This demonstrates, to me, something false and an intimacy that shouldn't be used when you don't know someone…but of course…this is about having a proper education. I especially like formal people on first contact…after all, we don't know each other…and I need to feel if I can or can’t receive the person...Ah..and please…too many emojis are very tacky… unnecessary intimacy with a stranger…best to avoid that… Have a good day… Rafaela

Yes…he disappeared… Hey @Needy…wherever you are…I hope you're happy… The reality of a beautiful life can be much better than the “fiction” of an online world… And in consideration of the great songs you posted…here's one for you, very good, cheerful and for dancing… Secret Agent Man - by Johnny Rivers (was released as a single in 1966, written by P. F. Sloan and Steve Barri)

So many songs…so many emotions…It’s hard to choose one… But I’ll post here the first cover I listened by Tommy Johansson, a Swedish singer which I discovered this year and I’ve listened to him frequently ever since…mainly because of his very good musical taste, powerful voice, intelligence (a natural aphrodisiac…) and ability to move me…… You’re the Voice - John Farnham (1986)

Yes…some songs are good… I find these videos of Charlie Brown, Snoopy and the whole gang very fun and cute… Music: Pay to cum - By Bad Brains (1980) Music: Perfect Night for a Hanging - By Tourniquet (1996)

I personally don't like Christmas music… but this one is especially beautiful, mainly because it's sung by the elegant and talented Michael Bublé… Santa Claus Is Comin' to Town (1934) was composed by J. Fred Coots (music) and Haven Gillespie (lyrics) Feel the elegance...

Yes, it's really sweet and tender, almost a "lullaby"... The next song isn't Christmas-themed or anything like that... It’s from an Australian band, and due to its energetic and combative atmosphere, it's perfect for intense fight scenes, like WWE events and action-packed trailers... The song became very famous for being part of the soundtrack of the movie “Tekken” (homonymous version of the video game) A style of movie that I really like and have watched many, many times, with fights, competitions, and ideals of revenge and justice, like that of the special character "Jin" who enters the tournament to avenge his family's honor... You're Going Down - Sick Puppies (2009)