Tantra

To what extent does a girl's age influence the customer's decision to choose that girl(?) I also wonder, for other girls. How important do you think the age of an visiting gentleman is? Personally, I hardly ever get appointment requests from very young men (18y - 30y). I didn't actually have a minimum age preference in my ad so I think younger men are mostly looking for young girls. And when they read 33y they just click next. Gentlemen I meet are 37y - 59y, a few exceptions under and a few over. I wonder if my own age makes me particularly interesting for this age bracket of gentleman? I myself prefer a gentleman 37y - 59y sometimes consciously and sometimes unconsciously. I'm curious... How big can the age difference be? Does a 65-year-old man choose a 20-year-old sex worker and does the girl receive this man(?) Does the girl's age influence your interest in a girl?- ...and for the girls(?) How important is the age of your customer to you?

Well, some of us, myself included, wish to receive only a few gentlemen. Being a sex worker doesn't mean that every girl wants to meet every man. I think we can choose our customers ourselves and we're happy to only get the ones we want. Each girl decides individually how to choose her clients. Probably some will look at their data. Personally, I am not interested in my customers' personal information. However, I'm interested in what kind of person I want to meet - how they think, what they like, who they visit... if I like them. I'm perfectly happy with my approach - I only meet 1-3 gentlemen on the days I'm available. I prepare each meeting individually – of course the gentleman who meets me is a client, but I arrange it like a date. Each meeting is individually tailored to each gentleman. Everything has to fit. The Gentleman is allowed to see that I made the bed especially for him, I chose the right music especially for him, I chose the candles especially for this date with him, I chose the dress especially for him.. ... Of course there are girls who receive 10-15 different men every day. For my part, I am very happy that I only meet a few selected gentlemen who I then really like as a person and as a man.

@BachToBach, Thank you for the kind words and your trust in me. Thank you for allowing me to accompany you on your and our little erotic journey of discovery through the tantric universe. Hug and Kiss with Love ♥️ Magnolie

Has anyone here talked about the fact that verification means giving out personal data(?) - I don't think THAT. I created the thread because I'm amazed that some men are willing to reveal their personal information but want to keep the non-existent anonymity of the EG profile secret. My customers can easily verify themselves via EG profile, but some seem to prefer the disclosure of personal data - I do not accept this process at all. :- I want to know what kind of man I'm meeting and if I'd like to meet him - this is most "visible" in the posts written by the person here in the forum. Personal data: whether name or anything else says absolutely nothing about people - their preferences, their character, their behavior. Therefore I cannot understand a verification via personal data and I would never support this method.

I now know some girls who use Tinder as an advertising platform. In fact, 80% of their customers are Tinder customers, who even pay double or triple the price of the customers who find these girls in escortguide or other advertising platforms. I don't know the exact process of how they "fish" for customers there - but it seems totally suspicious to me that the "Tinder customers" have no idea that the girls are sex workers.... Has anyone of the eroguide users possibly already had such experiences or even tried to advertise themselves(?).... ... somehow I'm a bit skeptical about "the business of love"... - Direct communication "erotic service for money" seems much more honest to me, - but maybe it is no longer up to date(?)....

A kind of “friendship” can develop. However, nobody gets my ( private) phone number and nobody gets any "perks". You just talk to each other more and get to know each other better – that's my experience.

@Søren A, Each of us girls wants to be THE one the client is waiting for and prefers to meet... Of course. For this reason, some customers even create a new profile for each girl. However, I myself prefer to know what kind of person I meet - this is clearly visible in the posts here, it is also advantageous to read the reviews - this way I even recognize "his" preferences... and no, - I don't get angry , when a user visits another girl. @Den_glade_amatør I actually checked out your profile and I think you're the kind of customer every girl loves to receive. Personally, I would even do without the verification because in your case the trust is also 100% and your posts reveal a warm-hearted, likeable man.

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Of course, this is not a scientific study. This is a poll on a sex forum about sexual preferences. The participants in the survey are genderless - it is not clear how many male and how many female users answer the survey. So you have absolutely no result here - if all female participants click tantra and male click anal (just as an example) - it doesn't mean that the majority likes anal, or that the majority likes tantra. This survey only shows that some users (male/female) are taking part in an anonymous survey.

The @Chocholade is a bit shy so he PMed me a photo of his penis. I understand the dilemma now - it's not about the length - the length is quite attractive... .... but the width.... oh la la.... a fine specimen. Visually it's very appealing, - but.... nobody can open their mouth endlessly and the vagina doesn't stretch infinitely.... - I think - some girls will love the TS for his "manly beauty", others will have concerns about the width ,- there may be small injuries or even worse - it won't fit at all..... ...but visually....beautiful....

Actually, in my first post, I write very clearly that I want to block incoming calls - all incoming calls... sigh... Dear @Bananas, can you please explain this to him... You are a great master of explanations... - when I write; "NO CALLS", - some specifically want me to block his number and when I say:" I want to block incoming calls", then I'm advised to block the part that's blocked anyway...sigh.... @Øbo Thanks for the link. I actually found the feature, only my phone asks for a security pin code (?) - Does anyone know the security PIN for an Android (?)

A rigid, beautifully shaped penis is a visual stimulus I don't measure length with a ruler - XXXL size wouldn't appeal to me.... .... but... I like to watch it when it's stiff... @Chocholade You could provide a picture of yourself, then we can "assess" if it's really "too big".

There are already countless threads about wanted and unwanted contacts, about reading and respecting what you read in every ad from every girl. As we are all individuals, our concepts are individually tailored to the gentleman we wish to meet. Every girl has her own way of communicating. Most of us, myself included, communicate in writing. Some girls prefer to talk on the phone - each in the way that best suits her and her concept. But when I write in my ad - NO CALLS - it's like it's not understandable (?) If someone just tries to call I don't mention it, but currently I often see 7-12 missed calls. My phone is on mute mode, I only answer specific appointment requests when I have time - in peace. When an adult reads the NO CALLS sign, everyone should understand that calls are unwanted and no one will answer the call.(?) ... or maybe someone knows if there is a function that completely switches off incoming calls (?)

Just calm down and drink a cup of tea. Valerian has a calming effect. I'm not your enemy... I'm a girl who was defamed herself by a malicious liar, who is definitely not a newbie. The difference is that he is actually "haunting" me and trying to slander my name at every opportunity. That is not the case here in this thread. After your "friendly greeting", the TS in this thread says absolutely nothing You yourself have already written in this thread that you agree that the number of posts written does not determine credibility, then you even agree that one should be careful with who one trusts, because some longtime users could be less than honest and might even be selling snow in the winter and then you spin again and tell that a new user did something here and there... You say you don't like liars - who do you think is lying in this thread (?) ... or do you judge someone just because they're new, because somewhere else, new user lied about something - do you think that's fair ( ? ) An experienced user can lie just as easily as a new user. I don't know the Sara that this thread is about, I don't know the TS either. I'm just communicating that a new user isn't necessarily less credible than an "experienced" user, - sometimes a newbie can even be more credible than an "experienced" user... ....and I don't allow myself to judge who is more or less credible. Your "skepticism", as you call it, "with which you very energetically counter the TS in this thread is not particularly fair.

....and I was just pointing, that a user who has made a few "bla bla" posts is no less and no more credible than a new user. It is also possible that a user who writes a lot is able to sell " sand in the desert"( as @Keapersayd) - but in reality only writes unrealistic stories.... ... in contrast, a new user can be a real, credible customer. In this industry, different people meet: rich, poor, good, malicious, intelligent, vengeful... especially when men are anonymous in a forum, no one can know for sure what kind of person "hides" behind this or that avatar "- some are good actors, others are honest regardless of the length of time his profile has been on the site and regardless of the number of posts. In this particular case - the TS is indirectly "accused" of lying - so, thinking logically, I'm not sure if his silence should be interpreted as a "fake profile". After this "friendly greeting" in this thread, "he" may prefer to create a new profile - which is unfortunately possible here....

Sorry, but that's not true - that's just a "wannabe" misconception... Why does a user in some threads first have to write: "I agree, she's so wonderful", "I agree, she's not worth the money", ...a few more questions and other meaningless "bla bla" (?) - he is then more credible (?) - for whom(?)... and why (?)... ....actually..... exactly this procedure "red light industry associated members" - have been using for years and also write hateful, unrealistic, invented stories - these are then more credible (?) Yesterday a new user wrote a "WOOOW" review - is this user more credible than the TS in this thread(?) .... if "you think/sort according to this "pattern" then soon we'll almost only have invented negative /positive stories from "agency members" or other "malicious fantasists" in the review threads. A new user is no more and no less credible/incredible than someone who only writes : “I agree.... + nonsensical questions and other bla bla” in various review threads. Hug

The "Discover me" has been on the menu since today. It's a "test run" because I somehow couldn't decide between two variants: - some gentlemen are gentle and want to give you a gentle massage, which can then "flow" into a mutual massage, if desired also into sex - some gentlemen are "playful" and actually want to discover "you" and your erogenous zones, there is also the possibility of using "love balls" as an example.... this game can also flow smoothly into physical union.... I have now "packed" both into the same package without giving details, I may split it (?) maybe I offer only one variant or both(?) I don't know ....

@Eva Nadine , I don't arranged my appointments via PM, the appointment requests are only made via SMS and WhatsApp. The verification "runs" either fully or partially via PM. That's a huge difference. Hug @Den_glade_amatør , Properly observed. You can "see" a more accurate "picture" of the person behind the avatar by reading the posts here on the forums. Also based on "rewievs": about whom and which addresses, with sufficient internal knowledge it can be clearly seen whether it is a real customer or possibly a "red light industry member" who writes pointless posts as questions or nonsensical "approval" in some threads and otherwise only pushes girls into "agency addresses" and possibly puts down independent girls - then you don't waste any time with them. @Keaper , Naming "your" profile is not a verification process, and neither is your photo in WhatsApp. With you, with @Lauersen and with a few other well-known "profiles" with whom I "got along well" in the threads here - I did not verify because the trust was 100% guaranteed and I found "you" sympathetic.

The gentlemen have to verify themselves with some of us girls. The reasons for this are likely to be different: meeting deadlines, customer selection..... There seem to be different methods of verification... Gentlemen visiting me also have to verify themselves: I "developed" a somewhat simplified process myself and it works very well: A gentleman who has an active profile on eroguide created before 2021 can easily verify himself with the profile, I don't need anything more - whether I accept him as a customer after I "looked at" his activities in the forum is then "a different topic" . A gentleman whose profile was created after 2021 still has to "go" 1 or 2 steps " more" depending on the activity of his profile. However, everything is pretty simple. I don't want to publicly "present" the details of this because I don't want my method to be copied by potentially shady "agencies". Girls who are really independent are welcome to contact me via PM or WhatsApp. Well, my approach actually works very well all the time, but lately I've seen men ask if they can use Facebook or LinkedIn for verification... although I explain to anyone interested that verification via eroguide profile "expires", there is also the fact that I don't use social media at all and I even communicate that clearly in my ad. Somehow a little confusing for me - the eroguide profile is completely anonymous, the verification is actually very easy.... why would you rather disclose your own personal data and protect the "eroguide profile (?) - that's completely strange . Some even send a direct link to some social media profiles as soon as they read the word "Verification" - I didn't click on that and "wonder"(?) if these are some virus programs(?) - sorry, I'm not an IT expert.. .. I have to say that this kind of behavior from men is completely new to me. Gentleman's have had to verify themselves with me since 2020 and nobody had the idea of offering their own social media profiles before. It was a single one in April on my last tour and "increased" now in the last few days.... Has anyone possibly experienced the same thing and can explain to me what this "apparition" means(?)....

Today I visited a park with two colleagues. It even smells "flowery" there... and we felt like "Eva's" in paradise.... So we renamed the park "Copenhagen's Garden of Eden".

I think the new owners of escortguide are reading here in the forum.... After the "complaints" here, it is now possible to easily pay for the ads there via paysafe. I "maxed out" my credit card on my last tour...some girls who don't have a credit card "have to" keep asking someone for help and often pay +50% of the price for "that help". Now everyone can pay themselves at no extra charge and without exceeding their own credit card limit. Many thanks to Escortguide for this great renewal.

@AB455, I am describing this industry from different angles because I know this industry very well. I have spoken to many girls, not only as a colleague - I have helped many girls for years as a "volunteer" - (again that word) worker in a social organization for sex workers in Switzerland. I'm not writing my own story because there's nothing interesting to tell. I entered the world of tantra first, sex came much later... as I wrote before - "go out on the street and see who you want to be intimate with (?)" - I asked myself this question - then I created my concept. @SweetMilf6630, I think it's "tip top" when the girls choose their customers - I do it myself - I complain that unfortunately very few actually do it, although many "advertise" exactly that. I also want to open the eyes to those men who think that being a sex worker means that she "automatically" offers herself to everyone - it's not like that. Keyword "nymphomaniac" - I actually once met a 57-year-old Swiss woman who had more than enough money in the bank and worked in this industry, but after sex she gave everyone the money back if "he" had satisfied her.... this woman was indeed a "nymphomaniac". I don't have to judge whether you are also a "nymphomaniac", I didn't address you personally - you feel "addressed" by my posts.... If I think logically, someone who is a "nymphomaniac" is allowed to offer sex for free, or not(?) ... at least a nymphomaniac would have very very cheap prices so that she could have sex with as many men as possible every day - But you say that you don't overbook...or maybe a "nymphomaniac" would give the money back to the man if she have good sex with him, like the aforementioned Swiss.... It's just logical thinking and I have absolutely no idea if you're a nymphomaniac....

Volunteer - is probably a better description of what I mean. I think that illusion and reality regarding this industry fits this topic very well. The dream of a perpetually horny sex worker- a sex worker is a human and a woman- we feel desire and lust like all other women in this world in different professions... no different... we don't have extra erogenous zones or anything.... Believing that prostitutes get wet pussies when a man pays money is a myth- which some sex workers unfortunately like to " sell" to the client. Certainly it's the flip side of the coin I'm addressing and only few talk about it - most men want to believe in the illusion. ...many of the girls receive every paying customers because they fear that otherwise they will not earn enough - and after deducting rent, advertising and other expenses, there will be nothing left for themselves.... Nevertheless, they offer excellent service - it takes a lot of effort to fake sympathy, which doesn't exist at all - that then destroys the person inside - vice versa, the same girls enjoy the sex when they meet a gentleman they like... This industry is not the "Garden of Eden" with naked "Eves" and every men is "Adam" and all "Eves" like every "Adam" "You" can certainly decorate it and keep the illusion... Personally I think it's more important that some men who still "see" us as "fair game" for everybody finally "see" that the fact that a girl is a sex worker and offers sex - doesn't mean that she offers sex for everybody.

I speak only generally on this topic - and thus majority. I have no idea if you overbook or not, I also have no idea if you choose your customers specifically - I do that myself, very carefully. I also don't know how many girls you've met, worked and spoken to in this industry - I've met and spoken to many. My posts are not specific to you or any particular " Aunt Else". The main motivation for this job Is Money. If it wasn't for that, some "ever-sex-hungry" girls would "voluntarily" work as prostitutes and forego the money. Do sex workers like sex - Yes, but not with everyone. ... NOT WITH EVERYONE - that is the main message of what I communicate in my posts.

What do you mean by "not all" - it's a bit unclear because you're not addressing anyone - do you mean that it is not possible to identify all customers through the eroguide profile(?) - it is possible - to identify ALL real customers- through a specific verification procedure - unless there was no verification and no meeting - if we are talking about girls, they should use the verification process. ... or do you think that one should not evaluate all services (?) Every consumer is allowed to evaluate a performance, one should only be honest, keep "good form" and especially in this industry the gentleman is allowed to keep a few intimate details for himself.