Tantra

It's our culture, our diversity... there are so many languages... In order to be able to communicate with each other, we need knowledge of a respective language: "the codes" - if you want to put it that way. Hardly anyone learns Danish here in Denmark unless they live here. Why not?- Because English is the most internationally understood and used language(?) ... Well, in Germany English is also considered an "international" language, but when the girls work in Germany, they learn German, not English... Looking back, my English in 2019 was grotesque... because I didn't use the language in Switzerland, Liechtenstein and Germany. Through the tours to DK I have "developed" my English to such an extent that I can have all kinds of conversations in all disciplines and about everything in fluent English without barriers and stumbling blocks. My Danish has also developed, but I can't converse in Danish. I understand 80-90% of spoken Danish, I can read it and understand about 70-80% of what I read. In the beginning I had to use a translator to translate all the Danish texts - this is no longer necessary today. Sometimes it's individual words or certain sentences that I then have to translate separately and look for "explanations" of what was meant by that... so far so good, but I don't speak Danish myself and I can't write Danish myself because I don't need - because everyone communicates in English. When I talk to colleagues and bring up the topic of "Danish language", some look at me absentmindedly as if I had said something completely nonsensical.... Some girls don't even speak English and have absolutely no interest in learning English or Danish... Why not?... I once asked a Spaniard or Latina the question - I can't say it more precisely because almost all Latinas are also Spaniards and have been living there for years and have "Spanish nationality" - communication was only possible via translator - she said: to spread her Legs she didn't need any language skills - "sex" would be an international language in her eyes.... I myself have a different opinion. I want to talk with the Gentleman. I can hardly imagine that there are men for whom it is enough to communicate in sign language and silently carry out "the action". That sounds pretty cold for me, - doesn't it (?) Eroticism, in all its diversity, not only tingles in touch, but also in words- in my opinion..... How do men see this? ...

After reading @Kim Petersen review about 2 girls from one address, I would like to add something to this thread: Why do men book and support such "gadgets" when it is obvious that they do not communicate with the girl herself (?) -- You rarely meet an independent girl with an operator. Most independent girls " manage " their phone themselves. Such a telephone operator/"secretary" is usually (99%) a member of a pimp agency. They " market " the girls on the phone, write " Oh so wonderful " ad texts and have countless profiles here in the forum. For a girl of such an "agency" my text probably served as a model a few weeks ago. If I tie my internal knowledge and all "nodes" together, it is explicitly noticeable in 2100 København Ø and Amager that such "agencies" are currently acting quite aggressively there, also in this forum. They at 2100 København Ø would like to fill up the Adress with good English or Danish speaking girls - which probably intended to "evokes the appearance" of a supposedly "independent" shop. To add spice to the shop, I was even offered the opportunity to work there. - I don't work in "Agency facilities" and have declined it with thanks. Since then I have been "public enemy number 1". Pictures were sent to me from this place to show me "the standard" and to make "the offer" "palatable". If someone is planning a visit to this area and is unsure, please feel free to ask me for the pictures via Whatsapp. Any serious and respectful request from a real customer will receive a reply with pictures from me. In a thread today, an alert customer even mentioned the use of the same phone number by different girls in said address.- When you then make seemingly negative comments yourself about what's already been blown so nobody knows who's who - even though you've recently "sung" in a completely different way, it's like a circus without a clown. I have already indirectly written about the machinations of these people in this thread. It is difficult to distinguish which male profile is actually a real customer and who is just a "friend", "loverboy", a pimp agency, red light owner or their straw men..... In the meantime, I look to see if a male profile often participates in the "general debates" or topics in "Hygesnak" to know how real this profile is - because loverboys, dubious "agencies", owners and their straw men might write a few posts here in the threads within few years. However some of these "exhibits" sometimes take on the role of trablemaker in the debates here too, fortunately this rarely happens. They stay mostly in the review threads - because they are only interested in pushing their own girls and if they consider it necessary to make the "competition" bad. Participating in general discussions is not one of their duties. This is not to say in general that if a man does not participate in the discussions here, then he is "automatically" a member of pimp-like "machines".... - but 99% of the guys participating in the debates here are actually real customers.

Rainy day in Switzerland today....

For emotions : Laughter, hearts and trophies are worth 1 point each, no points are awarded for the other (negative) emotions. If you "collect" 100 points with positive emotions, the status changes to "member", if you collect 1000 points with positive emotions, "your" reputation changes from "neutral" to "good". If you write 1000 posts, your reputation changes from "good" to "very good". If you collect 10000 points, your status changes again. .... and so it goes on, either status or reputation changes after : 100 posts, 100 points, 1000 posts, 1000 points, 10000 posts, 10000 points.... Hug

Thanks to each and every one of you for the advice and tips. Thanks to you, I've crossed Sydhavn off the list. It's true that sharing a bathroom/kitchen with someone you don't know can turn out to be a negative. This is about cleanliness and hygiene.... Now only Frederiksberg and Lyngby are left. Here the approximate location of the apartments was asked: - Frederiksberg, the posh neighborhood near the city center - Lyngby - residential area close to the center (not main street) - new, private apartment. @Eva Nadine From 4/5 I'll be back in Copenhagen with Swiss chocolate and a present for you

Verification doesn't mean checking someone's personal data - at least that's how I see it. The verification process I use is very simple - for Incall. I can't say whether it's enough for outcall, but I'm happy to help. Text me PM

I'm "stuck" in a decision dilemma... I'm planning my May tour and can't really decide which area of Copenhagen to book. I have 3 apartments to choose from: - Frederiksberg - nice apartment, spacious room - suitable for tantra - I would have to share the apartment with a colleague, i.e. kitchen/bathroom. I had met the girl for coffee a few months ago. - Lyngby - new apartment, spacious rooms - suitable for tantra. I would be alone - Sydhavn (near Fisketorvet) - spacious rooms suitable for tantra - I would have to share the apartment (kitchen/bathroom) with a colleague. I don't know the girl. In principle, all apartments are suitable for tantra. Frederiksberg and Sydhavn are central, Lyngby is a bit out of town but in a very posh area. Every apartment has advantages and disadvantages. Is one of these areas preferred by men, or do men make no distinctions? Actually I would lean towards Lyngby - but then I think - it's very far away.... ....then I think Frederiksberg....then I think - I've never been to Frederiksberg and maybe the gentleman(?) won't "like" the area(?). Then I think of Sydhavn - I like the area around Fisketorvet - but then I think - I don't even know the girl I would have to share the flat with... .... and so I'm going in circles .... Now I'm hoping someone will point me to some pros and cons of each area - which hopefully could help in my decision....

I write REAL AGE because it is my real age. In fact, anyone with any insight can attest to the fact that every year after 3/11, I always add +1 year correctly. Why some of us specifically point out - real age is because you often meet colleagues who are +45 and 3-4 years unchanged write that they are 29 or 30 .... i.e. a woman my mother's age turns out to be Teenagers - that's why some of us started writing - real age, which I suspect is unfortunately already being copied by the "always 29-year-old" "girls"...

Such intermittent erotic pleasure... it can be ongoing... the price for "unlimited time opportunities" may need to be discussed.... Great idea

@otto06, Your jigsaw puzzle... Well, I know of such ads that you describe here absolutely not. Look, the TS - Annika doesn't offer 1/2hour, I don't do it either. Our prices are clearly communicated, nobody questions it and we don't complain about it. What we "complain" here is that the men either don't read our ad at all or don't respect what they read. Each girl is individual and has her own concept - some of us including myself work in the upper segment and only receive a few selected gentlemen. We communicate clearly: " send me a specific appointment request: Day of meeting, Duration, EXACT TIME What you chose... It's not difficult to respect. The advertisement of the respective girl is like your own business card - we think about it, create concepts, we present ourselves accordingly in our advertisements - a gentleman may respect what has been read. If he doesn't, then intentionally or not he is showing "me" that in his eyes "I" am "very small" as a person and as a woman. Our ads were not designed for such men. A great gentleman who appreciates us as a person and as a woman and lady, a supposed gentleman, we meet at the same eye level and with mutual respect - it is the basis for an erotic devotion, for common "dance".... However, if you read an ad somewhere from a girl who didn't understand what she was writing herself or the ad wasn't informative enough, then you shouldn't "transfer" that to all of us - that's why we "complain" over and over again again, because some men think: - if a girl is available to all men in this industry, then all are - this is not so! ... - if a foreign girl hasn't understood something - then "you" can use that as a "lazy excuse" for all foreign girls - it's not like that! .... - if a girl offers short booking times, then everyone does - that's not the way it is!..... The examples could go on indefinitely. Respect that each of us is an individual, each of us has our own concept, each of us has an individual ad tailored to our own concept - read the ad and respect what you read. A Luna is not Magnolie, a Lara is not Eva, an Annabel is not Annika, an Olga is not Trine......

...and the slightest respect would be(?)... if a man doesn't respect what he reads in the girl's ad, then he doesn't respect that.... Or do you think that if he writes down the day and duration of the desired appointment and not the specific time then there is "least respect" (?) - no, it's not like that. We, and I don't think anyone will get mad if I speak for most of the girls at this point - we don't answer disrespectful messages. I don't know in which branch you are active, - but THIS branch is not comparable to any other branch.: It starts with recognition as a "profession" - very many people even now, in the 21st century, see a sexworker as an inferior human being, as if "sex for money" was a stigma for the outcast. Many of the men think that a girl who posts a sex ad is easy for anyone to get if they are willing to pay a few "bucks" - and when they realize this is not the case, then such men try the girl who allows themselves their clients self-choice and even fabricate supposedly dissatisfied visits to "her" - which in fact never happened - just to harm the girl. If the few of us expect our adverts to be read and a gentleman to respect what he reads - then some think: who is "she"(?) - a prostitute and expect me to treat her like a lady.... - but we are persons, we are women and we are ladies.... - in no other branch do you get so much trash messages - each of us is just one person - I personally don't have a secretary who separates trash from serious appointment requests ,- so I rightly expect the reader to respect what he reads.

@Annika.Sofia.A , This is a sore subject. The point is that a gentleman wishing to make an appointment should first read our ad, then the next step - a gentleman is allowed to respect what he reads in the ad - it costs absolutely nothing. As girls, we think about it, create our own concepts, some of us describe almost step by step how to write an appointment request as a respectful gentleman... If I write in my ad: please write me your desired date: day of the appointment specific time duration what you have chosen - in my case tantra or menu... .... I expect a gentleman to send me an appointment request accordingly. Then when someone reads this and still writes: Any time today? Any time tomorrow? Do you have time?.... ....or : Tomorrow at 15h., do you have time?.... ... or: A biography about himself, what a great respectful man "he" is... and at the end of this novel, then the question: do you have time?..... A gentleman would NOT behave like this and send such messages. A gentleman makes concrete appointment suggestions and doesn't ask: "any time? Do you have time or somethingl ike that" - although he has already read in "my" advertisement that only concrete appointment suggestions are desired. When a man doesn't respect what he reads in my ad, his behavior shows me how little I am in his eyes as a person and as a woman. I don't want to meet people like that, not in this life and not in the next. I have adapted my ad to a concept for a great gentleman whom I can meet at the same eye level with mutual respect - this creates space for magical moments together.

I'm not a men, but I would argue that I have more internal knowledge than a gentleman.... A "champagne" girl" in Luxembourg - why is anyone interested in such a thing (?)... - usually a "discontinued model" of old and aging Russian whores in Luxembourg ( sorry for the clear words) - the brothel where they work has the function of a pimp , most such women are "broken" and totally wrecked.... most lifted and re-operated, +45, although still trying to "sell" themselves as under 30. This "model" -" champagne "girl" - "doesn't work" anymore, they "sell themselves" very cheaply and hardly have any customers. Some try to find an "agency" abroad so that the "agency" - which is actually just a monstrous pimp apparatus - then markets this " girls".... this marketing is then a sighing bubble that usually bursts very quickly.

I once acquired a "wellness therapist" diploma out of curiosity," - well, I learned it out of curiosity. This gives me the opportunity to shop in specialist shops and the knowledge and ability to manufacture some products myself. PS You get a gift and you don't need to grow a bard

Meaningless short messages come from time to time, but not that many - here I just say "click and away" What is really troublesome is messages: Any time today? Any time today or tomorrow? Any time Friday? When do you have time?... and something like that..... Most even write names, ages, what they want and the desired duration.... but writing the specific time of the desired appointment seems too difficult for some.... so these messages remain unanswered.... PS What is "scor"(?). A new page?

No, I don't press it myself. I buy some base oils from "specialist shops", then I mix them myself in conjunction with flowers and leaves, yes.

My oils are made by myself and are of very high quality - wash off wonderfully with normal soap/shower gel. However, many a gentleman is "anxious" because of the smell (I use blossoms and petals), - for that there is special (core) soap, - also from my own production.

When the world blossoms ( 18.4.2022)....

Since this discussion, Nympho has seen a huge increase in new registrations - both male and female. Every day there are new "reviews" of girls - real and fake - as if a "fight" had broken out there.... An attempt is even made to create ads based on the "pattern" of my ad, without having any knowledge of what I am promoting and what I "stand for" - unfortunately there is no protection against cheap plagiarism in this branch - the attempt to "copy and trump as much as possible" then looks extremely ridiculous. If a "friend" then writes a "review" based on this, then the circus is perfect. Reviews are nice and a way of appreciating and thanking the girl...as long as they are real reviews. However, if it is written by the girl herself in curious "English" or is aimed at her "advertisement/application" by a "friend" - it does the opposite. Everyone knows that you can easily create a profile on Nympho (also male profile) and write "reviews"..... - many men recognize what is real and what is not.... This point should change at Nympho - so that there are only real reviews.... - I don't know how " you can" to improve it yet, but I'm "talking with the administrator about it... As a rule, you get the attention of customers on Nympho by posting pictures, selfies that you don't usually have in the set card - something new - that makes it interesting. Some have understood this principle and post 4.5 times a day - but the mass does not bring success. A meaningful post × every 3 days is usually much more successful. Likening male posts that you like brings just as much attention and flatters the "posting" user.... I saw a nice "Easter Bunny" post there from @Keaper today - very well done... By creating new threads in the lobby - as a girl you also get a lot of attention - as a TS you are something like "CoModerator" of the thread and can remove inappropriate posts from the thread. Although I myself have allowed all posts in the thread I've created so far, for the sake of variety.... Basically, Nympho's success lies on the pinboard - on the pictures that are not otherwise on the set card - preferably selfies, a few nice words and not posting too often. It's best to have a little presence on the pin board, a little in the lobby.... Discreet and present - that's what I would call successful advertising on Nympho.

The true story " writes life itself" We meet different people in this industry - people who couldn't be more different: highly intelligent people, good-natured people, sensitive, vulnerable people, malicious and vengeful people, rich people, poor people and people who would like to be rich.... I've held a lot of girls in my arms over the years and dried their crocodile tears because they fell in love with the wrong man (customer) - who actually after a few months "sex for free" had already paid for the next one for sex.. .. However, I have also seen beautiful stories where a gentleman actually falls in love and "helps" the girl financially to go down another path - some of whom are married to the men and have children - on their own not every one of these "knights" were as wealthy as Richard Gere.... Some girls fall in love with a " Loverboy " and then finance him " out of love" or what I call it - they are " in bondage to him".... Love, or the possibility of falling in love, exists in this industry - only not every story ends like "pretty woman" - girls in this line of business have their hearts broken more often than men... although some stories actually end like "pretty women "

Although I cannot be with you in person this year, I would like to send you this virtual Easter hug from the bottom of my heart. Have a happy Easter!

If it is forbidden for Swedish men to buy sex abroad,... then I want to marry a Swedish man. So he'll always be mine

Photographed in today's sun...

If you find yourself that the chemistry isn't right, you should leave. I don't think anyone is happy about an unpleasant experience. As a girl, I usually notice when making an appointment whether “we” fit together and whether I want to get to know the person. Only once did I have to turn someone away who wanted to go to their “limits” with a late appointment confirmation, early arrival, no SMS at the door, but SMS from the car and a lot added up. Finally, I didn't want to see him anymore. Eroticism is something beautiful - it is diverse, everyone will find a suitable track to live out their own preferences and every gentleman will find a lady with whom it "sparks" and with whom he can enjoy wonderful moments

You mean "white knight" - who "helps" the girl and finances the house with his own money and not with the money that the girl earns through prostitution and finances him with it.... ... yes, "white knight" from "pretty woman" - there is also, rarely - but there is - but they have nothing to do with a modern pimp - "Loverboy" who can be endured by a prostitute. ... and in general: as beautiful as eroticism is and may be - this branch has its good points and also has shadows in the form of "Loverboys" - although these are not "malicious" in the sense ( of coercion)... - the girls concerned can at any time end it, but they are emotionally "dependent" on these men... on the outside it's like an "addiction"... The "agencies" are a different "caliber" - many people are involved, they are well organized in marketing, management and so on... they create profiles for the girls, market them in the forum with rave reviews when it becomes necessary through the many profiles that they manage, the existing competition is quickly crushed and their own "little sheep" are placed on the pedestal. Even as an independent girl you are not "safe" from his machinations. I myself was recently "targeted" - probably because many currently think that tantra is simply "in", so an alleged "visit to me" was recently invented that is said to be 1.5 years ago and only after 1.5 years spent with "silence" as a super active member does not miss an opportunity to create a twisted "picture" of me backed up with fabricated lies - who believes or want to do it- peace with him - everyone has to verify themselves with me with their own eroguide profile - the PM history can be traced back to the creation of my profile here - "you" probably didn't know that, just lied diligently anyway.- Typical procedure of an "agency" - the next step would then be to "set up" "own flock" and... voilà.... - you didn't have to wait long for that. If you have a little insight and both eyes open, you can look at the posts of the thread starter of a certain thread - previous and current ones from the same owner address, which seem to be building something with "Tantra", the commenters are even " clearer... . ... but as a independent girl what do you want to do(?) - you can only say that you haven't met this person, but "you" are only one person and you can't do anything in a case like that. Only you yourself, who know this industry and you've already met some girls who have "worked" with such agencies and willingly "told" you about the process of doing socan add 2×2 together, see that it "stinks to high heaven" and you recognize the typical procedure of such an "agency", but you can't even prove that it is so. ...because you are not protected in this branch as an independent girl against defamation and against lies -Is it dangerous for me to write this post almost unequivocally and point the finger - yes, that's it - but staying silent is not an option when such "machineries" have set themselves the "target" of destroying your reputation - All you can do is provide consistently excellent service and hope that the gentlemen who know you will review you - but in such a situation, real users don't want even to be attacked themselves, some even delete their profile after such incidents, some just stay still, although they know you and know that an injustice is happening, however, one does not want to be drawn into "the whirlpool" oneself.... and mostly in such situations after a while nobody wants to write a review about "you", no matter how wonderful you are too, but "you" prefer to remain silent because "you" don't want to be attacked yourself... and at some point the readers even start to believe that you have to be avoided.... this approach always works because that's how our brain "works". that we "prefer" to remember the apparently "bad" things, even though they are lies.... As an independent girl, your reputation can quickly be destroyed if such an agency sees you as too much of a competitor because you are only one person and have only your own word - which has little clout against an all-powerful organized "machine". I wrote it in the current situation and also in general to stimulate a little thought - not every user is a real customer, no matter how long he has been a "user", not every person is honest and in a sex forum where every male user is and can remain anonymous, not everything is gold coin.