Yes, I understand what you mean and I agree with you, it's crucial, and even if the message isn't offensive, but if it's not objective, doesn't contain the minimum required information that I politely requested, I don't respond and I block without regret…
If you, as a client, want to feel secure and that you're making the right choice, you should receive an appropriate message, preferably with all the information that, for some reason…the person doesn't want to declare in the ad… But you should be aware that: many messages are not answered by the girl herself, so sometimes you may feel the bitter taste of being like "just another one in line”…It’s a matter of perception: The more you understand for yourself, the less you will be deceived…
I can understand about a person just by reading how he (or she…) writes to me, just as I can also read without needing to open the message, so I leave the person without knowing any news, since the person chose to send me a message that isn't honest enough to receive a response.
I once worked in a country where, as soon as I arrived, I let a friend (ex-friend, of course…) answer my phone (and I paid for it, I don't want anything for free) because I couldn't understand the language before. But I quickly gave up because, although she spoke fluently, she was terrible at answering, and when I realized that, I took the phone from her and started answering myself, even though I spoke a little incorrectly – it's better to be honest and say that I don't understand the language but show my personality and let the person feel secure that I am genuine.
I find it polite for people to call each other by their chosen names. I avoid and don't respond to those who write to me : "Baby," "honey," and so many other things… ("Baby” is everyone…I'm Rafaela…) - This demonstrates, to me, something false and an intimacy that shouldn't be used when you don't know someone…but of course…this is about having a proper education.
I especially like formal people on first contact…after all, we don't know each other…and I need to feel if I can or can’t receive the person...Ah..and please…too many emojis are very tacky… unnecessary intimacy with a stranger…best to avoid that…
Have a good day…
Rafaela