The duration of the rendezvous

[Tantra 1634]

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How long can a nice erotic meeting last (?) - how do you say gentleman (?) ... or how short can a sexual meeting be (?)

I myself prefer longer dates.
Several hours for tantric rituals but also 2-3 hours for sexual bookings. In my experience, men also prefer the 2-3 hour bookings - I would even describe this as the most popular booking duration for men.

Occasionally 4 or 6 hours are booked. Some who are "only" interested in sex menus and are a bit overcautious and want to see if "the chemistry is right" only book 1 hour for the first meeting.

Overnight bookings are rare: there may be 1 booking within 3-6 months - rarely more often.

...but these are just my humble experiences.

However, I've spoken to other girls and some don't like long bookings at all. A colleague once told me that 30 minutes would be far too long for her and that everyone would ideally only stay 15 minutes. Here's how she phrased her ad...

I think everyone has their own idea of how long an erotic meeting can last(?)...
How long can your (boy/girl) erotic rendezvous last and why(?)....

[Fullerman 75]

I used to book 1 hour meetings, if it is for sex only, I must admit with my age I like to take it more slow, and I also enjoy long lasting intercourse more..just be inside the pussy with a hard erection is such a Nice feeling  I have also tried Tantra meetings, and there it sometimes is 3 hours, which I enjoy a lot, but then I also plan a Day complete off, as I must also include travle time.

[Hans69 447]

Spændende emne..

Før i tiden kunne jeg godt “nøjes” med en halv time, hvis det “bare” var blid sex jeg kom på besøg for, to hurtige udløsninger hos en sød pige, så var jeg klar til at se verden i øjnene igen 

Nu er jeg kommet til at det er det lidt mere avancerede jeg går efter, bdsm begge veje, og det går slet ikke på 30 min., der skal meget mere tid til, min. 1 time og der har vi så alligevel kun nået 25% af den fantasi der kører inde i mon krøllede hjerne, så nu er opgaven at få sparet sammen til mindst 2 timer eller mere, heldigvis kommer der jo både skattepenge og feriepenge i denne måned 

Hvis jeg rammer den rigtige, så spare jeg gerne op til den rigtige oplevelse.

[Keaper 599]

Simple
The longer the meeting the better.
I never ask for less than 2 hours.
This, as I look to the GFE girls.
Yes, It is a bit of a gamble when meeting someone new, if you should prove not to be compatible. 
And I do ask if 2 hours is ok.
If anything with the last two girls I have meet, 2 hours have felt to short, time simply whisked us away.

The longest meeting I have had was something along 3-4 hours.
And even that felt short with her.

I have yet to make an all-night / over-night meeting.
But there's a couple girls i would consider it with.

I would never ever meet someone for 15-30 min.
Never !
That feels like a segment of girls I have zero interest in.

[Lauersen 10045]

Mostly my meetings have been 1 hour, and for sex I think it is fitting. I have only once tried half an hour, and only because it was the end of the girls shift (but we showered together afterwards). I usually cannot reach climax on paid visits, but it is not my focus anyway - I can always come later on my own. The only time I have come during paid sex and enjoyed coming was on a 2 hour visit with lots of snuggling, kissing, cozyness and pillowtalk. I also booked 2 hours for the more creative BDSM sessions.

[Guest Mr. Sensual]

Tantra skrev, 1 time siden:

How long can a nice erotic meeting last (?) - how do you say gentleman (?) ... or how short can a sexual meeting be (?)

I myself prefer longer dates.
Several hours for tantric rituals but also 2-3 hours for sexual bookings. In my experience, men also prefer the 2-3 hour bookings - I would even describe this as the most popular booking duration for men.

Occasionally 4 or 6 hours are booked. Some who are "only" interested in sex menus and are a bit overcautious and want to see if "the chemistry is right" only book 1 hour for the first meeting.

Overnight bookings are rare: there may be 1 booking within 3-6 months - rarely more often.

...but these are just my humble experiences.

However, I've spoken to other girls and some don't like long bookings at all. A colleague once told me that 30 minutes would be far too long for her and that everyone would ideally only stay 15 minutes. Here's how she phrased her ad...

I think everyone has their own idea of how long an erotic meeting can last(?)...
How long can your (boy/girl) erotic rendezvous last and why(?)....

Nearly always one hour, never less than that, and I usually rearch climax after 48 minutes and 33 seconds, depending on the eyecontact, the feelings, and the chemistry with the GP. Have to add that I love long foreplays, kissing and flirting before going to naked action.

[pacer 2748]

30 min kan være fint. 
60 min kan jeg tage hvis jeg kender pigen men ikke mere det bliver for dyrt for en førtidspensionist.

[Guest Rust in Peace]

I prefer 45min.- 1 hour, but it also depends on my mood, the girl and the price structure. A meeting for more than 1 hour is a long time and alot of money for a first meeting, where you may want to leave way before the time is up.

i understand the girls who prefer a short meeting. Then the costumer has 100% focus on the sexual act and the girl don’t have to involve herself mentally. It just doesn’t work for me as it takes some time for me to get in the right mood.

[skunken 830]

prefer 45 min, but 30 is ok

[Tantra 1634]

@Fullerman , @Hans69 , @Keaper

We are 100%

.... @Lauersen , @Mr. Sensual and we are 90%  " on the same wavelength"

@pacer ,  @Rust in Peace ,  @skunken
I know some girls who prefer this length of bookings.

Nobody has said anything about Overnight yet. I myself have few such bookings. I know that some girls who "drive escorts" prefer this booking period.

Personally, I'm a little "difficult" about that I guess... spending a whole night with someone you've never met before... I can't do that. I think with such long bookings, where you leave your own comfort zone and maybe even fall asleep for a few hours in a spoon position.... - I have to know the person a little bit, otherwise I find it somehow "too familiar" even though you is not familiar.... -

...maybe it's just me who thinks so....

What do the gentlemen think: do you like to spend so much time with an unknown girl(?) Is it relevant to know each other beforehand?
.... what do other girls say about it(?)....

[Keaper 599]

Tantra skrev, for 6 minutter siden:

Nobody has said anything about Overnight yet. I myself have few such bookings. I know that some girls who "drive escorts" prefer this booking period.

Personally, I'm a little "difficult" about that I guess... spending a whole night with someone you've never met before... I can't do that. I think with such long bookings, where you leave your own comfort zone and maybe even fall asleep for a few hours in a spoon position.... - I have to know the person a little bit, otherwise I find it somehow "too familiar" even though you is not familiar.... -

...maybe it's just me who thinks so....

What do the gentlemen think: do you like to spend so much time with an unknown girl(?) Is it relevant to know each other beforehand?
.... what do other girls say about it(?)....

I mentioned over-night

I have not had such a visit.
But I absolutely agree.
As a first meeting, I certainly would not ask for it.
I slightly hesitate the 2 hour meeting as a first meeting, should chemistry be of.
So over-night, no, I need to have meet the girl before, and know we each-other.

And yes.
With a girl that I have meet, and we had a nice meeting, where we got along and we both where happy.
And of course, provided that she as well approves.
Then sure I would like to have a all-night meeting.

[Realist 100]

I would definitely prefer meetings with no time limit, but since that usually also comes with a price tag that makes it a little difficult in this world 
For some reason knowing that I have booked 1 hour makes me stressed and the experience can sometimes be affected by that.

[AB455 3118]

I prefer one to two hours meetings.

Two hours is my (current) internal upper limit for when I'm booking a woman for intimacy, touch and sex, without other expectations.

If it last longer I'm afraid that there could come more feelings in it for me.

If it's shorter that one hour, I don't get enough time for touching and thereby absorbing and satisfying my skin hunger.

[Operaelskeren 142]

I prefer shorter but more frequent meetings in the beggining (1-2 hours) , to ease my anexiety. But after 2-4 meetings I tend to book longer meetings, in order to get to know the person more, and explore things  comfortably together. 

[Annika.Sofia.A 645]

I specialize in longer bookings and building connections over time. This means that 50% of my bookings are overnight dates (minimum 14 hours) and I LOVE them so much 

This why I'm in this industry. I'm offering companionship.

I prefer long-term, regular relationsship with a very small client base. Also I don't offer short meeting, shorter than one hour. 

I know this is not normal in Denmark, or even in Europe, which is why I work a lot in Dubai and London.

Also I provide fly-me-to-you (FMTY) and I have met gentlemen from all over the world. Its amazing!  

In my opinion this industry is not just about sex, but about human relationships. I truly love spending time with my clients and get to know them

 

Redigeret 7. April, 2022 af Annika.Sofia.A

[MrLovaLova 1177]

Spændende emne, kan slet ikke forstå der ikke er mere travlhed blandt pigerne når EG´s brave skare af mænd står klar med timelange besøg.

Jeg selv går nok lidt mod strømmen, bestiller ofte 15 min, og hvis jeg i stødet til flere udløsninger så 45. Jeg kommer for det sexuelle, jeg er ikke interesseret i small talk, GFE, nusseri og lign. Det får jeg andre steder oprigtigt og uden betaling.

At gå til en GP er det lille ekstra krydderi for mig, intet andet.

Jeg har af og til bestilt 30 min, men føler det er lidt spildt når jeg er færdig og klar til at smutte efter 20 min.

[Realist 100]

MrLovaLova skrev, for 52 minutter siden:

Spændende emne, kan slet ikke forstå der ikke er mere travlhed blandt pigerne når EG´s brave skare af mænd står klar med timelange besøg.

Mon ikke det har noget med at gøre at ja vi vil gerne have timelange besøg, men har for det meste ikke pengene til det 

[MrLovaLova 1177]

Realist skrev, for 21 minutter siden:

Mon ikke det har noget med at gøre at ja vi vil gerne have timelange besøg, men har for det meste ikke pengene til det 

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[AB455 3118]

Realist skrev, 1 time siden:

Mon ikke det har noget med at gøre at ja vi vil gerne have timelange besøg, men har for det meste ikke pengene til det 

Søger færre men gode besøg 

[Bogormen 142]

Normally my visits are between 30 minutes and 1 hour,

The reasons are of course financially, and if the duration is too long, there is an increased risk of catching feelings, since a longer appointment would be with a woman that i have visited before and feel i have chemistry with.

[Zen romantiker 5]

I think we older men value the longer meetings as we are probably more to quality time understood as empathy physics and mental contact presence and enrichment both sexually and mentally. I have never been with a GP’er for less than an hour and have with them, now the "regular" significantly longer visits and have also tried overnight and it is so incredibly different, in the lovely way. Will, however, think that it requires you to know each other well and are that you’re on wavelength as sex is not enough for such a visit! It then brings another issue in play, is it the same hourly rate as an hour meeting times the number of hours? I know this topic has been taken up before and again here I would think that when you know each other well then it is mutually a rewarding experience and thus also outside the normal hourly rate! does it make sense? good day

[Tantra 1634]

@AB455 , @Operaelskeren
Very nice that other gentlemen are like-minded

@MrLovaLova ,
Some of the girls prefer this length of booking

@Realist ,

Well, booking duration without time limit - I would not have come up with this idea. May I ask: How long would this rendezvous last (?)....

@Annika.Sofia.A,

Interesting post. Thanks for that.
However, for my own good, I would like to meet with the  Gentleman 1-2 times for 2-3 or 4-6 hours before agreeing to an overnight stay....

@Bogormen ,

Of course, there is also the question of what you can afford and how often.
Some then book fewer and longer, others more often and shorter. Everyone to their own taste... and for every "preference" there is a suitable 'player'.

@Zen romantiker ,

Interesting way of thinking. It is very important to me to meet the Lord at eye level with mutual respect
Being on the same wavelength is essential for longer dates

That the duration somehow influences or could influence the price is pros and cons - an interesting point for a new thread on this topic...

[AB455 3118]

Tantra skrev, for 43 minutter siden:

@AB455 , @Operaelskeren
Very nice that other gentlemen are like-minded

Thank you, @Tantra 

But to clarify my preferences, it is one to a maximum of two hours visit, because I am looking for time for a close meeting without obligations with all that entails of both intimacy, conversation, fun and coziness, but not for a relationship, whether it is paid or not.  Therefore, my upper limit is two hours, as I have a hard time imagining that I can limit my own feelings for the person I meet if the appointment is longer than two hours.

[Tantra 1634]

AB455 skrev, for 5 minutter siden:

Thank you, @Tantra 

But to clarify my preferences, it is one to a maximum of two hours visit, because I am looking for time for a close meeting without obligations with all that entails of both intimacy, conversation, fun and coziness, but not for a relationship, whether it is paid or not.  Therefore, my upper limit is two hours, as I have a hard time imagining that I can limit my own feelings for the person I meet if the appointment is longer than two hours.

2-3 hours is a very nice duration and "offers space" for getting to know each other and a little passion and enjoyment

[Realist 100]

Tantra skrev, for 1 time siden:

 

@Realist ,

Well, booking duration without time limit - I would not have come up with this idea. May I ask: How long would this rendezvous last (?)....

Well if there is no time limit, it would take the time it takes 

But what I mean is I have had few rendezvouses with one SG that took about 4-5 hours, but we also had good chemistry and I was not all that focused on my own orgasm, and we also spend some time just cuddling and talking.