The art of reading

[Tantra 1634]

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Actually every girl has her own concept and approach ... also desired contact. I clearly state in my ad that I only want to be contacted via sms or WhatsApp ... and that I don't want to be disturbed by calls, so I can sort out all serious inquiries as soon as I have time and answer them comfortably and calmly. Since I tend not to make appointments at short notice, this is an advantage for me and my customers.
However, since I've been here in Horsens - I get over 70 calls a day .... some call from the same number continuously .... I absolutely don't understand how men should read the advertisements (?) .... you even think not that a gentleman could be visiting and calls are undesirable (?) ... or are they just men who have no respect for other people and do not even read the ad (?) ....

[Goodmann 62]

I can only speak for myself, and not for what other men are thinking and doing. However, I must tell you that I always read the add very carefully and make the contact in the way it is described in the add. However, I am thinking that you probably could mute your phone when you have visitors, or maybe all day. So, when you have time, reading WhatsApp and SMS you can delete all calls at the same time. This is a proposal on how I think you can handle undesirable calls because I think it is mission impossible trying to educate all men not to call you for contact.

[Tantra 1634]

I am glad to hear that you are a gentleman and that you read the ads carefully.
My phone is always silent. What I'm about is the disrespect that, although it is clearly stated in the ad that calls are undesirable, people are still being called. I mean, it can always happen that one or two people don't read the ad and call within a week - I can live with that. So I even send a message with the request to read my ad and to write an appointment request exclusively via sms or Whatsapp. But the extent of the past few days is incomprehensible to me. Meanwhile, I block all callers who stick non-stop on the redial button.

If I compare - I was in Copenhagen 3 weeks ago for a  9 days - within 9 days / 1 call. Here in Horsens is currently my day Nr 4. 4 days/267 calls ..... 61 calls from one and the same number ... and so I wonder if you have forgotten to read...

[BjørnStivert 1]

I come from Horsens and all I can think of is that, the selection of good girls is limited compared to the bigger cities. But i'm surprised that you get so many calls compared to CPH, so maybe we are just some horny dogs that don't read here in Horsens. 

I personally read before I write or call, but have also missed or miss read some things at times.

But I hope that you will enjoy Horsens in spite of the spam calls

[Hunting for beaver 4208]

Dont know what other does, cause it's not very nice often or rarely to be spammed with calls etc. , especially when you already have taken your precautions telling about it in your add. but one solution could maybe be to block certain number's, but not funny at all your time is not for free,,, I guess ! 

If it's from hidden number's dont know if something else should happen / phone setup

Good luck !!!! 

best regards,,,

/ H.

 

***** Maybe this will help *****

From the ad :

 

●●● APPOINTMENTS CAN NOW ONLY BE MADE VIA SMS OR WHATSAPP!!!!! THANK YOU ●●●

♡No calls please. Write me sms with specific appointment - desire, the duration of the date and your chosen menu or Tantra. I answer as soon as I can.♡
 

Redigeret 1. December, 2020 af Hunting for beaver

[Guest Sentio]

@Tantra .... I called you 4 times in Copenhagen 

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[Keaper 580]

I wish I could say it's down to reading comprehension.
I do confess I had to read your ad a couple times before I fully understood your way of operating.
Nothing at all wrong with it, just a bit to take in.
Possibly some are not willing to take that time ?
I think that at least covers most, and many seem to be used to simply calling.
Even though more and more girls prefer WhatsApp, I do prefer that to, it's much easier to contact a girl that way and she can reply at her own leisure.
But I do think that properly reading is the very least one can ask for. 

So lets say some are mistakes.

But calling again and again, that's simply rude and disrespectful, nobody does that by mistake.
Still, not reading is simply sad.

[Tantra 1634]

Unknown numbers are automatically rejected by my phone - it may explain the 4 calls indicated by @Sentio / because I don't have these calls in my phone.
I also block all numbers that call me repeatedly, currently on the first attempt ...
I only communicate via sms or Whatsapp - only existing customers can and often call me via Whatsapp / of course ask beforehand whether they are allowed to do so and whether I currently have time.

.... @BjørnStivert I enjoy Horsens despite the impossible number of calls. The gentlemen I have met here so far have all been great gentlemen ....

Thanks for the support @Goodmann,@Hunting for beaver, @Keaper 

Redigeret 1. December, 2020 af Tantra

[DenSidsteKavaler 192]

Tantra skrev, for 9 timer siden:

Actually every girl has her own concept and approach ... also desired contact. I clearly state in my ad that I only want to be contacted via sms or WhatsApp ... and that I don't want to be disturbed by calls, so I can sort out all serious inquiries as soon as I have time and answer them comfortably and calmly. Since I tend not to make appointments at short notice, this is an advantage for me and my customers.
However, since I've been here in Horsens - I get over 70 calls a day .... some call from the same number continuously .... I absolutely don't understand how men should read the advertisements (?) .... you even think not that a gentleman could be visiting and calls are undesirable (?) ... or are they just men who have no respect for other people and do not even read the ad (?) ....

Meget fint og særdeles relevant indlæg Magnolie. Modtog jeg 267 opkald på fire dage, var jeg blevet blæst omkuld. Respekt for at du tager det med stoisk ro.

Din pointe med indlægget skinner tydeligt igennem: læs hvad der står i annoncen. Du anfører ret tydeligt, hvordan kontakten skal foregå og du opridser ligeledes tydeligt præmisserne for et eventuelt møde. Det er jeg meget glad for. Du får mange tak for at gøre din annoncetekst både spændende og forståelig. 

Sms eller whatsapp som kontaktform. Det kan ikke blive tydeligere og dog - så anfører du endvidere, at du ikke ønsker opkald. Så bør det faktisk stå fuldstændig klart for enhver, hvordan kontakten skal foregå.

Dertil kommer nogle rosende ord:

Jeg er meget glad for detaljerende og ordrige tekster, så da jeg læste din annoncetekst var det mere end blot en fornøjelse for mig. Jeg nød virkelig til fulde at læse din tekst forud for vores første møde. Din velskrevede, punktlige og velformulerede tekst var det, der vækkede mit begær og min interesse. Endnu en gang mange tak for en velskrevet og spændende tekst i din annonce.

Gid alle må finde samme store glæde og fornøjelse som den, der strømmede gennem mig, da jeg læste din annonce.

/DenSidsteKavaler

[Guest Grydeskeen]

I do not know if it is only me, but if I have to call the first time, and not only send a SMS, then I will still be a virgin, I am to nervous to make the first call.

it is only good manners to introduce you self in the SMS, the first time, an you can do that without telling every thing about you self, so that you are still a kind of anonymous.

[Tantra 1634]

@DenSidsteKavaler Thanks for the praise. I need enough preparation time and planning for my bookings. Therefore I have to write in detail and it is a shame if you are spammed with calls, although I write clearly that I do not want to be disturbed by calls and only want to communicate via SMS or WhatsApp.

Another phenomenon of the past few days where you ask for last minute appointments, although I also make it clear that you need to reserve in advance. It can sometimes work if you ask 6-8 hours in advance on the same day, but it's unlikely. I do not think that it is difficult to read the advertisement and to reserve a few days or weeks in advance and to formulate accordingly: Hello, I am "Hans" 43 years old, I want an xy on the yx day at the xy time - Have a ritual or a menu, depending on whether you book a tantra or sex menu (just specify). Alternatively, I would have time available on yx day at xy time ..... it's just an example and in fact they are grown men, but some seem to have completely forgotten the letters or the reading in the last few days.

@Grydeskeen,
I totally agree that for some, the ability to send an SMS is a little easier than having to call. Especially if you are not used to making such contacts. So you don't have to leave "your own comfort zone". Though I think it's enough for boys and girls to give a call. Personally, I don't want to be disturbed by calls and if you don't respect that, your phone number will be blocked.

Actually, if you invest 5 minutes of time as a potential customer and read the ads from us girls, then you also know how the chosen girl would like to be contacted.