Dette skriv er mest sigtet på de få kvinder der trods alt læser vores ord. 

Hvad gør du mest op i når du sidder og kigger på dating profiler på mænd. 

Billede eller den tekst han kan skrive? 

Jeg har visse fordomme dis angående mine fordomme er kun baseret på de få meget smukke mænd jeg kender og deres fortællinger om hvor succesfulde de er på diverse datingprofiler. 

Jeg tror jeg er lidt gammeldags for jeg ved godt at de apps som vi har til rådighed i dag ikke rigtig giver plads til det som vi kan skrive men fokusere mere på vores billeder. 

Det vil sagtens ganske naturligt at vi lige skal have foden indenfor. Det samme gør sig gældende når vi skal søge job. Her får vi altid at vide ' sørg for at få noget blikfang '. Lad være med at skrive lange lange tekster om hvad du har lavet helt ned til mindste detalje. Keeple simple my friend. 

Det ville være optimalt, at der var mere fokus på tekst/personlighed. Men som du selv er inde på, billederne vægter højt. Det ydre skal tænde, før de fleste begynder at interessere sig for personen bag det ydre.

Det er min opfattelse i hvert fald. 

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Dette skriv er mest sigtet på de få kvinder der trods alt læser vores ord. 

 

Hello 

I don't research dating websites and I have no interest in that, and one of the reasons, besides my disbelief, is what you wrote - about the importance given to images and not to text, revealing the superficiality of this. 

If someone is looking at this website more interested in the images and not the written content, I personally would not want to meet that person.

I understand that long texts without content can really be tiring, uninteresting and reveal something that doesn't need to be said, not at that moment.

If I were someone (I'm not) who was looking for this kind of encounter, I would look at the details that attract me physically, not about perfection but whether he cares about his appearance, along with the way he expresses himself.

If he is beautiful and empty in the way he expresses himself, I would avoid it, and if he is not very beautiful but I notice that his text has personality, he is different from most (it is not really easy to find interesting people...) I would try... but already aware of the risk because there is very little that can really be perceived about an website like that. 
 

The best wishes 

Rafaela 

Hi @Nye tider

Is there a problem? Can't you understand what is clearly written by me and what I replied to the topic creator?
 

Have a good night 

Rafaela 

Hello dear @Nye tider

If you didn’t understand (which is a mystery to me), and don't agree with what is written (that's your right), you can simply ignore it.

I politely responded to the person who started the thread, who wrote that he would like to hear opinions, especially from women, and I hope that others can say what they think, if they want to.

Your reaction is unfriendly and unnecessary and may even make other people not want to participate anymore so as not to run the risk of attitudes like yours.

You can react however you want, it just shows your imbalance.

Have a great night 

Rafaela 

 

 

Hello everyone

 

The reactions made on my post by @Nye tider have been deleted but was previously: 

 

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Have a good night 

Rafaela 

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