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Working as a prostitute, regardless of the social class you come from, in addition to satisfaction, also offers a package of risks. I've taken a number of risks and I'm aware that I can't change anyone's mind, but using a condom can save you a lot of trouble.
A few days ago an article "sex without a condom" piqued my interest, what?!
In my case, I was and am always asked if I offer sex without a condom. However, I find it very sexy to refuse you. (I have never had condomless sex with a client and never will). This sexual act without a condom can have consequences on the psyche (of both the client and the woman who offers it), in addition to diseases that are not at all friendly. Sex should bring happiness, not apathy and insecurity.
Without being bad girl please, those of you who know that you visit prostitutes that you penetrate without a condom, do not approach me with messages, offers, really please, in the name of health, which is at the forefront , do not -make  appointment with me.
I have enormous respect for mens who love condoms when they pay for sex. Don't let your instincts play with you, neither as a woman( to make more money), nor as a man ( to feel more)
Take care of yourself and the health of those around you!

( my honest side, honest answer for all who ask sex without) ...more and more, unfortunately. 

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As one of your customers. As one of the readers here. I have the deepest respect for you. You are special and I agree completely.

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Hottie skrev, for 7 timer siden:

Working as a prostitute, regardless of the social class you come from, in addition to satisfaction, also offers a package of risks. I've taken a number of risks and I'm aware that I can't change anyone's mind, but using a condom can save you a lot of trouble.
A few days ago an article "sex without a condom" piqued my interest, what?!
In my case, I was and am always asked if I offer sex without a condom. However, I find it very sexy to refuse you. (I have never had condomless sex with a client and never will). This sexual act without a condom can have consequences on the psyche (of both the client and the woman who offers it), in addition to diseases that are not at all friendly. Sex should bring happiness, not apathy and insecurity.
Without being bad girl please, those of you who know that you visit prostitutes that you penetrate without a condom, do not approach me with messages, offers, really please, in the name of health, which is at the forefront , do not -make  appointment with me.
I have enormous respect for mens who love condoms when they pay for sex. Don't let your instincts play with you, neither as a woman( to make more money), nor as a man ( to feel more)
Take care of yourself and the health of those around you!

( my honest side, honest answer for all who ask sex without) ...more and more, unfortunately. 

Clear speech, high class. My respect to you, Hottie. I shall go to Århus from Copenhagen-area to visit you and have some nice walks in your town.

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Hottie skrev, for 7 timer siden:

I have never had condomless sex with a client and never will.

Does that mean oral sex as well? I'm thinking of both ways: Do you only suck with condom and do you only let clients lick you with a membrane cover?

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I also asked your question at the beginning. I even asked the gynecologist whom I visit very frequently to feel safe. Diseases with oral transmission are much more limited and easier to treat than those with sexual transmission, which you can carry all your life. I started offering unprotected oral sex in the winter, I have a grade 10 oral hygiene, no cavities, no canker sores, I pay attention to all possible details in a pleasant way, I refuse clients without making them feel uncomfortable, and if I offer oral sex , it costs extra 500. I wrote very clearly that I assumed a series of risks.

I wrote this topic being reviewed positively...I arrived on Saturday, and since the topic of unprotected sex was opened, I am asked much more frequently about .

I have nothing to hide!<3

I would like to end here with respect, because I am busy, I want to spend my time with clients and less on the forum ...

Kisses 

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It rings a little hollow, you telling girls to not take the risk with unprotected sex for extra money when you, yourself, sell unprotected oralsex for 500:ph34r:.. 

I totally agree with you if you take away the double standard.. I believe that the condom gives me a very, emotionel and mentally, healthy distance.. Even when performing oralsex.. 

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I think that it is very few man who actually loves to use a condom ;) We are aware that we have to use them, but that does not make us love them :)

 

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Hottie skrev, 1 time siden:

 Diseases with oral transmission are much more limited and easier to treat than those with sexual transmission, which you can carry all your life.

Absolutely right. But you are talking about mental health, not physical.

Of course, I can easily understand that the risk of physical disease has a major influence on mental health. That goes without saying. I have a couple of times engaged in unprotected intercourse (in the heat of the moment) with a prostitute and every time I was a little or maybe quite a bit nervous afterwards. It was in my thoughts for several days, and rarely in a good way ... I would imagine fucking several customers unprotected every day would impact me a lot more than if it was protected - just due to the risk of infection.

But condoms can also give you mental protection in a more direct way. It keeps a barrier between you and the customers. That is how I also interpret @JenniferRomantica's comment.

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Bear skrev, for 15 minutter siden:

I think that it is very few man who actually loves to use a condom ;) We are aware that we have to use them, but that does not make us love them :)

 

I like condoms as a kink actually. Putting one on gives a signal of now the sex is about to begin, and it is best for me if the girl puts it on me as part of the foreplay. I also suffer a bit from paranoia and false vd symptoms after a visit, and knowing that a condom was used does bring some comfort. 

As for the double standard, I let the girl decide about oral for me, but I simply don't feel I am having sex if I don't get to lick her unprotected. 

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Like luck, we are all different.

I'm Hottie , I don't just offer sex, I offer "girlfriend experience" I don't focus only on those "5-10minutes" of sex, we are human and if we don't accept what we do, it ends sadly both  for the payer and for the service seller.. maybe make more sense.

What do we do with men who don't want or can't have sex ? Or what do we do with men who choose a session with hand job / blow job ? ;) I like to meet with you also<3

Sex is an art. And more then this, sex must be seen as a benefit that you give to your body and your state mind when you relese hormones.:wub:

I don't offer sex without a condom. That was the main idea!!!

Beautiful summer and take care ! 

 

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Hottie skrev, for 1 time siden:

I offer "girlfriend experience" I don't focus only on those "5-10minutes" of sex,

I am a dedicated 'fan' of GFE in the "classical" sense - what you may call "romantic GFE"  (The term 'GFE' is often abused for a lot of other purposes, it seems to me)
And for me, when I visit a girl, we usually just have, as you describe, 5 or 10 minutes of sex at the end of the session of 30 to 60 minutes.

To me, there is a big difference between just 'buying sex' and getting a 'Girl Friend Experience'.
It is hard to put into words, and as a client, I only pretty rarely experience a 'full scale' GFE ... bur mostly something in that direction.
It would be interesting to know how you distinguish between the two?
What do you mean by GFE?
Can you give a GFE to any client - doesn't it require a certain level of chemistry, sympati, good connection / communication .. ?

Hottie skrev, for 1 time siden:

What do we do with men who don't want or can't have sex ? Or what do we do with men who choose a session with hand job / blow job ? ;) I like to meet with you also<3

I don't know if that was a rhetorical question, but I think I may have some answers to it .. ;) 
Most times, when I visit a girl, I don't orgasm ... 
And the last few times, I have had problems getting an erection strong enough to have sex.
Last time, we agreed in advance to have a session without sex, and that was a great experience for me ... 

Anyway, 'real' GFE 'runs much deeper' than just sex; and as a client, you sometimes have to walk on a thin line .. 
A true meaning of the term "Sex and psychological effect" .. ;) 

 

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sneræven skrev, for 1 time siden:

 

I set my limits. 

Respect is the key , as in any interpersonal relation. 

By my reviews I m a girlfriend experince. I treat people exactly how, if I were a man, I wold like to be treated. 

 Chemestry, connection,pleasures, desires , good an constructive communication  they are expensive things, that we barely get in time in relationships or marriage.

When you pay for sex, it's different. But , I hope you all get what you wish... good time. <3

 

 

The end

 

 

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Hottie skrev, den 28.7.2022 at 02:32:

Working as a prostitute, regardless of the social class you come from, in addition to satisfaction, also offers a package of risks. I've taken a number of risks and I'm aware that I can't change anyone's mind, but using a condom can save you a lot of trouble.
A few days ago an article "sex without a condom" piqued my interest, what?!
In my case, I was and am always asked if I offer sex without a condom. However, I find it very sexy to refuse you. (I have never had condomless sex with a client and never will). This sexual act without a condom can have consequences on the psyche (of both the client and the woman who offers it), in addition to diseases that are not at all friendly. Sex should bring happiness, not apathy and insecurity.
Without being bad girl please, those of you who know that you visit prostitutes that you penetrate without a condom, do not approach me with messages, offers, really please, in the name of health, which is at the forefront , do not -make  appointment with me.
I have enormous respect for mens who love condoms when they pay for sex. Don't let your instincts play with you, neither as a woman( to make more money), nor as a man ( to feel more)
Take care of yourself and the health of those around you!

( my honest side, honest answer for all who ask sex without) ...more and more, unfortunately. 

Respect !!!

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