The contact, no go's, answers and communication...

[Tantra 1634]

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We're all grown ups - at least that's what you think... but some of the messages you get as a GP make me doubt it.

There are now countless threads about some guys who don't read ads from us girls or don't respect what they read, as well as countless threads about guys complaining when they don't get replies.
I think many girls would appreciate it if a gentleman wrote:
Hello, my name is x ( John, Thomas .....), I am y ( 42, 50 37 ...) years old. I want to meet you on day "x" (23/3, 24/3, 25/3....) at "00:00" (13:00, 14:00, 15:00) for "x" hours" ( 60min, 3h, 3h....) I would like to experience "x" or "y". That's just an example, but if a gentleman writes like this, then I'm sure that many girls "this" man would like to welcome as a customer and respond to him in a friendly manner.

...as a contrast, there are certain no-go's that most girls never answer. So you could “collect” these no-gos of communication, which messages are never answered by most girls and which answers from girls to men are considered an absolute no-go.
 As far as I know from my own point of view and have communicated it with other GP's, here are the no go's for us girls:
Hello, hej or just hello:

Where are you? or Where are you exactly?

Price?

Is too expensive for me.
Student discount?

Do you have time? Do you have time right now?

Any time? anytime today?  _ my comment - a gentleman makes a specific proposal or 2.3 proposals with specific times if the request was meant seriously.

Do you want to fuck?

I am very beautiful and young, I will give you an orgasm - price?

How much?

Address?

Are you free?

Open?

Free?

Do you have time tomorrow? _ my note: there are 24 hours in a day, most girls are available for 8-10 hours, but the girl should know when she should/would/could take her time...

Ar you in Copenhagen ( Aarhus,  Odense.....)?

... there are definitely more No Go's, I don't know all of them, but maybe other girls could complete the list....
It is also interesting to find out which answers from us girls to the men are considered absolute no-gos - maybe it will make communication a little easier and help to be friendlier to each other.

[Keaper 599]

Tantra skrev, for 1 time siden:

We're all grown ups - at least that's what you think... but some of the messages you get as a GP make me doubt it.

There are now countless threads about some guys who don't read ads from us girls or don't respect what they read, as well as countless threads about guys complaining when they don't get replies.
I think many girls would appreciate it if a gentleman wrote:
Hello, my name is x ( John, Thomas .....), I am y ( 42, 50 37 ...) years old. I want to meet you on day "x" (23/3, 24/3, 25/3....) at "00:00" (13:00, 14:00, 15:00) for "x" hours" ( 60min, 3h, 3h....) I would like to experience "x" or "y". That's just an example, but if a gentleman writes like this, then I'm sure that many girls "this" man would like to welcome as a customer and respond to him in a friendly manner.

 

Interesting.
As always.
But very interesting that you write these particular points.
As this is almost exactly what I write when I contact a lady.
An opening polite greeting and usually an icebreaker.
I mention both my name an usually my name here on the forum, even if I sometimes forget that.
My age and when it's asked for, my nationality.
And a suggested meeting time, that I at least think will work, based on my travel situation.
Then for how long and what type of meeting, or if a girl has different options, I make sure to mention what I am looking for.

This does mean my contact messages tend to be a little on the long side.
But I do get the impression that it's still appreciated, as I tend to get very nice replies and arrive to be meet by a very happy girl.

So, excellent post, and I agree fully with it.

Redigeret 20. Marts, 2022 af Keaper

[Lillybaby 87]

I can just agree with you! 

Especially the 1 word messages make me crazy!  Im not even respond for that messages! Thank you for your post!!! 

[AB455 3118]

Good list, but it should seems obvious that it doesn't give positive replies. I do understand your frustration.

Not always a no-go, but when you as a customer ask simple questions like "is bath possible?" and the woman never replies or ignore questions they don't want to answer. Also when someone else, than the woman herself reply "yes, yes" to something that isn't true or possible. Eg "yes she can see you at that time" or "yes she offers xxx", but doesn't.

Nevertheless, I think that your challenges are the most. Sadly enough.

Redigeret 20. Marts, 2022 af AB455

[Guest N10Ah]

I can only imagine How frustating it must be When guys ask these kind of questions as you mentioned , questions like wanna fuck ? Adress ? And etc.  I wonder what go through these guys head it’s like they Think “Yeah this Will get me far” . It can’t be that hard for a costumer to read your advertisment properly, it takes like what ?  2 minutes to read the advertisment properly through. And it must also be frustating When a costumer dont introduce himself properly. When i contact a gp i always write my name, age nationality, and what time of the day i wish to visit the Girl and for How Long i wish to visit the girl and i always read their advertisment through. And i get an answer pretty fast afterwards. So i understand How annoying it Can be for you girls When a costumer  is not serious. 

Redigeret 20. Marts, 2022 af N10Ah

[Kuk-kuk 115]

If no prices are listed in the add, I tend to ask for a pricelist before asking for anything else. don't want to waste the girls time if I find her services to be too exspensive

[½angel 1917]

I get it must be extremely Annoying to get those one word or stupid messages from men. I can’t follow their train of thoughts, what do they think writing ”fuck” or address will get them.

Also if the add is writte good, there shouldn’t be need for stupid questions. It’s a bad sign and lack of respect toward the girl not to read their ads. But often we men need to ask questions because some girls only write 1 hour service, but what does that mean. Because it’s very different from women to women, and I would like not to meet a full-on PSE-girl if I’m in the mood for GFE. Or just is it OWO or with condom, what kind of kissing and so on, many ads don’t show that.

 

I actually write my messages like you suggest:

dear xxxx
I am age and nationality. I would like to meet you the “date” and “time” for a “(PSE/GFE)”date, with “extra services”.
And then I ask my questions, if I have some.
And I end the massage with, that she can write back at her earliest convenience and that this phone is only use by me.

Sadly it happens a lot, that many girl don’t reply, because the message is too long, even though it’s in a respectful tone. I often find that if a girl reads and answer my questions in the first message, we will 95% of the times have a good experience together. But if I have to ask again and again for an answer, where she writes back, but doesn’t answer the question, I often give up or take a chance on a girl and get bad service.

Just my two cents

[1000 9]

Tantra skrev, for 19 timer siden:

As far as I know from my own point of view and have communicated it with other GP's, here are the no go's for us girls:

 

Totally agree - a good connection starts with good communication. And it works both ways - I sure quite a few gentlemen also have their no-go’s - when you write a nice message and get some strange sms back. 
:)

[Annika.Sofia.A 645]

This is so correct!

A true gentleman will always make a proper introduction! 

I'm not answering these ''Hi'' ... '' Hi baby'' .. ''Are you free'' message. 9 out of 10 times its a time wasters. They just want to chat for free...

That's one of the reasons I have made a booking form on my website so I get all information in the first email. 

I can really recommend that 

[Guest Grydeskeen]

½angel skrev, for 9 timer siden:

I get it must be extremely Annoying to get those one word or stupid messages from men. I can’t follow their train of thoughts, what do they think writing ”fuck” or address will get them.

Also if the add is writte good, there shouldn’t be need for stupid questions. It’s a bad sign and lack of respect toward the girl not to read their ads. But often we men need to ask questions because some girls only write 1 hour service, but what does that mean. Because it’s very different from women to women, and I would like not to meet a full-on PSE-girl if I’m in the mood for GFE. Or just is it OWO or with condom, what kind of kissing and so on, many ads don’t show that.

 

I actually write my messages like you suggest:

dear xxxx
I am age and nationality. I would like to meet you the “date” and “time” for a “(PSE/GFE)”date, with “extra services”.
And then I ask my questions, if I have some.
And I end the massage with, that she can write back at her earliest convenience and that this phone is only use by me.

Sadly it happens a lot, that many girl don’t reply, because the message is too long, even though it’s in a respectful tone. I often find that if a girl reads and answer my questions in the first message, we will 95% of the times have a good experience together. But if I have to ask again and again for an answer, where she writes back, but doesn’t answer the question, I often give up or take a chance on a girl and get bad service.

Just my two cents

I think that you have a point, in if the girl answers back, with a good answer, then there a opportunity for a good experience. It is the same point that @Tantra give, she want a politely contact/wish, and if she not get it, there is a chance that there will not be more contact.

There are only one think I think that the girls have to have in mind. When a mand get in contact with a girl, many times it is a big step, with a lot off worrying involved, he is nervous, maybe he have to hide the contact (for the wife), maybe he have never done this before, he is afraid to bee judge by his friends if the know. All this thing make him maybe do something how is a little stupid.
I myself remember my first contact with @Tantra, and how nervous I was, for all the ting above, and I have read her add, very careful, so that I did not do anything stupid, and I think that I did okay. A very big reason is that her add is very specific, and leaving no question. I have read a lot off add, where afterwards I have more questions then answer, and then it can only go bad.

[Guest Mr. Sensual]

Tantra skrev, for 23 timer siden:

We're all grown ups - at least that's what you think... but some of the messages you get as a GP make me doubt it.

There are now countless threads about some guys who don't read ads from us girls or don't respect what they read, as well as countless threads about guys complaining when they don't get replies.
I think many girls would appreciate it if a gentleman wrote:
Hello, my name is x ( John, Thomas .....), I am y ( 42, 50 37 ...) years old. I want to meet you on day "x" (23/3, 24/3, 25/3....) at "00:00" (13:00, 14:00, 15:00) for "x" hours" ( 60min, 3h, 3h....) I would like to experience "x" or "y". That's just an example, but if a gentleman writes like this, then I'm sure that many girls "this" man would like to welcome as a customer and respond to him in a friendly manner.

...as a contrast, there are certain no-go's that most girls never answer. So you could “collect” these no-gos of communication, which messages are never answered by most girls and which answers from girls to men are considered an absolute no-go.
 As far as I know from my own point of view and have communicated it with other GP's, here are the no go's for us girls:
Hello, hej or just hello:

Where are you? or Where are you exactly?

Price?

Is too expensive for me.
Student discount?

Do you have time? Do you have time right now?

Any time? anytime today?  _ my comment - a gentleman makes a specific proposal or 2.3 proposals with specific times if the request was meant seriously.

Do you want to fuck?

I am very beautiful and young, I will give you an orgasm - price?

How much?

Address?

Are you free?

Open?

Free?

Do you have time tomorrow? _ my note: there are 24 hours in a day, most girls are available for 8-10 hours, but the girl should know when she should/would/could take her time...

Ar you in Copenhagen ( Aarhus,  Odense.....)?

... there are definitely more No Go's, I don't know all of them, but maybe other girls could complete the list....
It is also interesting to find out which answers from us girls to the men are considered absolute no-gos - maybe it will make communication a little easier and help to be friendlier to each other.

Thank you Tantra for contributing to raise the level here.

Unfortunately many GPs remain silent, when we debate erotic issues. You know why, I know why.....and they know why. Code of honour seems to belong to the old, lost world.

But it's a annoying nevertheless.

Yours Mr. Sensual