Svært ved at få første kontakt

[Tantra 1634]

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Sirjames skrev, den 28.12.2021 at 11:16:

Goddag til alle jer friske svende. 

Jeg har fulgt med på sidelinien i nogle måneder, og har nu oprettet en bruger for at kunne spørge ind til jeres oplevelser. I første omgang vil jeg gerne høre hvor svært i har ved at få en aftale i stand med en pige i ikke har mødt før? Jeg har i flere dage forsøgt at skrive til 2 forskellige piger men får ikke svar fra dem. Det er piger som i beskriver som seriøse og dygtige, og ingen af dem skriver at de holder fri på deres annonce/profil. Jeg har før fået kontakt rimelig hurtigt, men altså ikke lige i denne omgang. Så 4 hurtige spørgsmål:

Er der et tidspunkt på dagen som er bedst at skrive til pigerne på?

Hvor mange gange forsøger i at få kontakt før i giver op?

Og har i en sms som i sender til dem som hæver succesraten for hurtigt svar:)

Dear @Sirjames, every girl has her own individual "approach to contact", tailored to her concept. SMS is preferred by many. However, SMS is not just SMS...

I read the "suggestion" here to ask where the girl is - well, I don't know all girls and not all concepts, but I can't believe that a girl would be happy with this question. It sounds more like a "adress collector", although it's probably not meant that way...

We actually get a lot of messages every day and not all of them are serious, so we create our individual concepts and individual ads.
I think any gentleman who reads the girl ads carefully, respects what he has read in that individual ad and accordingly writes a respectful appointment request will always receive a respectful response.
....if "you" do not  respect the girl's desired individual contact options, but simply write what "he" thinks is "right" in his eyes, then posible many of us will see this as "Junk" and just ignore it.
Threads often arise where the man complains that he didn't get an answer - maybe some didn't get an answer because the girl in question read it "too late" and didn't answer out of "consideration".

However, many do not receive an answer because they do not respect or have not respected in the past the wishes in the girl's individual ad for contacting/requesting an appointment and their phone number is already "blacklisted"/blocked.
Reading an ad only takes a few minutes, respecting what you read costs absolutely nothing, it just requires respecting and respecting a girl's wishes as a matter of course.

[Guest Mr. Sensual]

Tantra skrev, for 24 minutter siden:

Dear @Sirjames, every girl has her own individual "approach to contact", tailored to her concept. SMS is preferred by many. However, SMS is not just SMS...

I read the "suggestion" here to ask where the girl is - well, I don't know all girls and not all concepts, but I can't believe that a girl would be happy with this question. It sounds more like a "adress collector", although it's probably not meant that way...

We actually get a lot of messages every day and not all of them are serious, so we create our individual concepts and individual ads.
I think any gentleman who reads the girl ads carefully, respects what he has read in that individual ad and accordingly writes a respectful appointment request will always receive a respectful response.
....if "you" do not  respect the girl's desired individual contact options, but simply write what "he" thinks is "right" in his eyes, then posible many of us will see this as "Junk" and just ignore it.
Threads often arise where the man complains that he didn't get an answer - maybe some didn't get an answer because the girl in question read it "too late" and didn't answer out of "consideration".

However, many do not receive an answer because they do not respect or have not respected in the past the wishes in the girl's individual ad for contacting/requesting an appointment and their phone number is already "blacklisted"/blocked.
Reading an ad only takes a few minutes, respecting what you read costs absolutely nothing, it just requires respecting and respecting a girl's wishes as a matter of course.

Clever and calm words. Thank you.

If a gentleman follows these advises from Tantra, he shall receive a nice answer from nearly all GPs. And he can forget about those few not answering.

[Keaper 599]

Tantra skrev, for 7 timer siden:

We actually get a lot of messages every day and not all of them are serious, so we create our individual concepts and individual ads.

I think any gentleman who reads the girl ads carefully, respects what he has read in that individual ad and accordingly writes a respectful appointment request will always receive a respectful response.
....if "you" do not  respect the girl's desired individual contact options, but simply write what "he" thinks is "right" in his eyes, then possible many of us will see this as "Junk" and just ignore it.
Threads often arise where the man complains that he didn't get an answer - maybe some didn't get an answer because the girl in question read it "too late" and didn't answer out of "consideration".

Very interesting input from @Tantra.
Especially these lines here.
I think they sum it all up very well.
And this is how I always have tried to approach a girl when asking about a possible meeting.
I had read your ad very close before I texted you, and I do the same with any girl.

I think I have received a reply from all girls, well, all, it's not exactly many that I have contacted. 
Sometimes a bit late, but then with an apology from the lady in question, and from one the reply was a little hard to understand, since her English wasn't so good, but she still gave a nice and sincere reply.
And of course, we meet, so I must have written something right.

Also, I definitely do not have a standard copy-paste text.
I take my time.
A first contact text can take me an hour to put together since I want to make sure I have written everything correctly and followed any wishes the girl has.

Be correct, be respectful, and conduct yourself and I think you will both get replies and be welcomed by a happy lady.

Redigeret 14. Marts, 2022 af Keaper

[Guest Grydeskeen]

En lille ekstra godbid til pigen, hvis hun er på EG, kunne være at nævne sit brugernavn her på EG, i kontakten til pigen, det vil måske kunne gøre kontakten nemmer, og hun vil kunne søge på brugernavn, og finde ud af noget om dig ( så må man håbe det er til din fordel ). Det brugte jeg i sin tid, for at legimitere mig over for en pige, og jeg er overbevist om at det var en medhjælp til at jeg fik kontakten til hende. Og på sin vis er man stadig anonym, det er da helt sikkert bedre end facebook lønsedler mm