I was wondering if this is a common thing, before meeting with the clients : )?

I am often building things up, by having chats weeks before the actual meeting,, or on the same day as sort of a foreplay to the actual meeting..

So my question is: How does this work for you guys? Both the men, but especially the other girls in here?   For me it gives a rush, to fantasize about the meeting before it actually happens, but also the fact that I get to know what the client likes etc. and that I am avaiable to meet their desires  

Når jeg har bestilte en Tantra oplevelse, får jeg mange gange en sms med beskrivelse af hvad vi skal lave, og om jeg har nogle ønsker. Det syntes jeg er Mega godt, det giver en fantastisk følelse i maven, og man går og  opbygger  forventningerne.

det er rigtig god kundepleje, og giver fuld valuta for pengene. 
husk at passe på hvis telefonen har push-up for sms, så de kan ses fra låst skærm, og der er uvedkommende som ser på telefonen.

Discretion is a must obviosuly, so notifications is not the best idea if there is a wife at home haha..  I prefer to communicate and chat in the inbox here at eroguide - it is a very discreet way I´d say.

Well, now I have to say you are on to something.
I Love to have a talk in advance.
I mean, I completely understand that not so many girls would be into it, because it takes time.
But the once that do, well, that adds a whole other level for me.
Especially since I like to make an appointment long in advance, days, maybe even a week or more.
Since I have to travel and line up schedules.

So yes, absolutely, I think it builds the anticipation, and more you are on the same page, I find the better and more enjoyable the meeting will be.
Possibly with your way of working it's even more important.

So yes, I Love your thoughts on this.

Thats good to hear !

That being said, I am not chatting with all clients.. most is actually just a quick appointment without too much writting, but that can be at least just as hot as the built up way : )

Lots of men are also up for chatting, but in reality they are just flirting with the idea of meeting up, but then gets cold feet or something.. but this can happen for me too.

I think I just like the contrast of writting, getting horny, and really built up,, and then when meeting it is more a pure physical release you get and that the actual meeting is rather simple.  

Like @Keaper I too get aroused by thinking about My booking a couple of days beforehand.  There is just something that gets me off by thinking how the session will play out, what new things i will experience thst day.

I might be because im new to this, and still in the honeymoon stage with this hobby. 

In terms of chatting: I would love to do it, but im so incredibly shy to do it, and would need a girl to start the conversation, and then I can reciprocate. 

Exchange-Student skrev, for 9 minutter siden:

I think I just like the contrast of writing, getting horny, and really built up,, and then when meeting it is more a pure physical release you get and that the actual meeting is rather simple.  

Thats my thoughts almost exactly.

I have been a bit hesitant about the way your setup works, since I thought it sounds a bit to impersonal to me.
But with that way of building it up.
That makes things rather different.
And much more interesting

I can certainly understand that some get nervous just as it's time for the meeting.
I have as well, and on occasion of course unexpected things do come up, none the least these days, when plans suddenly crash down due to a new restriction.

But now you are making me very curious about you.

Well you can always write to my inbox at this eroguide page : )

My Debut on eroguide…. Love your teasing

Stilidsen happy you connected here, so we dont have to go trough anymore ^^ As I already said, I prefer writting via the inbox here, instead of the outlook mail : )   

I had some great communication with some of the girls I visited, and it worked for me to build it up and to feel that we were not complete strangers. We mostly used email or the personal messages on this site. I did hear from some girls though that they don't want to spend their time sexting with someone who might not show up anyway, so we should not expect that everyone we try to get a date with has the time for it.

Lauersen skrev, for 2 minutter siden:

I had some great communication with some of the girls I visited, and it worked for me to build it up and to feel that we were not complete strangers. We mostly used email or the personal messages on this site. I did hear from some girls though that they don't want to spend their time sexting with someone who might not show up anyway, so we should not expect that everyone we try to get a date with has the time for it.

That is very much true!  I only sexchat if I have a feeling that this meeting will really happen.. I´d say 50%+ of the men just want sexchat and not meeting in the end - with this way they basically get free sexchat, which is not the idea.. the idea is to built up for the actual meeting  

@Exchange-Student that would be amazing, count me in on that one  a few of the girls that i have visited gave me a little appetizer of what was going to happen and a little flirt When i contacted Them on whatsapp.  It’s kind of teasing to have a little idea of what’s going to, happen and not reveal all of the good stuff and leave a little to the imagination 

Exchange-Student skrev, for 7 timer siden:

That is very much true!  I only sexchat if I have a feeling that this meeting will really happen.. I´d say 50%+ of the men just want sexchat and not meeting in the end - with this way they basically get free sexchat, which is not the idea.. the idea is to built up for the actual meeting  

I wouldn't sext a first-time guest unless I have a very real indication that he's legit. For example a well known eroguide user who seems reliable. And even in these instances it's more along the lines og exchanging ideas for setups than actual sexting. 

I used to get a bit dirtier and flirtier in my messages, but honestly, I've been stood up once or 177 times too many. People use the messages to relieve the pressure at home and never make it to my room. 

With known faces I sometimes do idea exchanges which can get quite steamy once in a while. It's not standard, but it happens. But only with people whom I know use it to fan the flames, not put them out, and would never stand me up. Usually about specific fantasies we might try out or setups they've thought of - so with a foot firmly planted in the "this is something we want to make happen" sphere, and with the understanding that answers come whenever the time and energy is there, and thus no expectations of speedy replies. 

Redigeret 26. December, 2021 4 år af Nannas Hjørne

I definitely find it hot to sexchat prior to a visit. I often find it possible to some extend and it helps to get to know each other and build up the steam, which makes the sex date even more hot and the fun starts days before the actual visit. I m always genuine and only make contact if I want to meet. 
@exchange student: i fully ageee that the chat imay be better than mails. At least you and I missed to book a date, because i messed up between my mail accounts. I have apologized for that. Unfortunately I have not yet had a chance to meet with you and enjoy you and your fantastic hot concept. Maybe next time you are on. Just write in the chat