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Chelly skrev, for 26 minutter siden:

You are a pimp I guess , or you are a manager of some girls ?
If you know so much about sex and buying services:))))) 

Exiting conclusion from a girl who blame others for not being polite

As mentioned before I compare the working girls as professionals businesswomen who are doing at great job by selling services.
 

Unfortunately TS don’t see herself as a businesswoman who selling services. I don’t know what she is selling while I have never visited her. But I am pretty sure she is working alone with no pimp or even a phone girl. 
 

For the record - I am very experienced in buying services - not selling. 
 

Redigeret 24. August, 2021 af Jogge

[Chelly 77]

Jogge skrev, for 8 minutter siden:

Exiting conclusion from a girl who blame others for not being polite

As mentioned before I compare the working girls as professionals businesswomen who are doing at great job by selling services. Unfortunately TS don’t see herself as a businesswoman who selling services. I don’t know what she is selling while I have never visited her. But I am pretty sure she is working alone with no pimp or even a phone girl. 
 

For the record - I am very experienced in buying services - not selling. 
 

I made a conclusion from the way how u write with this behavior u create only bad and negative about yourself . And ex if  u would be a customer for sure I would not accept ur offer for buying my service with this attitude.
Who’s TS in this debate  what are u talking about ?

If u don't know here, how u can talk about? Her bussines or something? U are like those who have opinions always for free:))) 

[Lauersen 9941]

Chelly skrev, for 2 timer siden:

I want to share my experience with people who insist and calling lot of times !
Friday  in the evening one potential client insisted a lot of time to meet me, i did not answered, because I was occupied . When I got time I did answer for him even if I didn’t wanted because  he called numerous times I felt it’s weird but he seems very nice to the phone in my mind then it was "ohh, his a nice guy i judged him". We agreed to meet Saturday because I was already too tiered to meet Friday 
He arrived, we did what we have to do, then when time was finished he sad "i dont wanna go, i stay here and you cannot do nothing if you dont like u can go" I explained him kindly it is not possible you have to go. Hi started to be aggressive, my girlfriend from the other room she heard. I took his clothes and i gave it to him to put it in, he refused and become more and more aggressive. He said "i want u to go out to the room, close the room" then i understood he wanna stole from us and i said in my house nobody close the door, the door stay opened. I was tacking the peper spray and i said to him i will use it in that moment he was a bit scared, he put his clothes on he asked to go to toilet, i said okey. In the toilet he called someone, we understood when he said "come here, i cannot do nothing because of them" so. I said to him hurry up. Then he just jump on me to take the peper spray, i fighted with him, i knowed if he take it he will beat us badly. It was not about money, it was about our lives. I tried to protect myself so I beat , his bolls, his face, when one of my hands was free in a sec i used the spray. I have black marks everywhere. This time i/we was lucky cause if not today for sure i write this message from hospital!!!! 

When someone insist so many time its creepy, we are not obligated  to answer to every calls. We can select who we want to meet, we can refuze etc.we don't have a contract with nobody, everyone have to respect our privacy and to stop thinking if we do this job we are obligated  to accept everyone!!!! I suppose if we call back the clients all the time  they will NOT be happy, they will think we are psychopath. If you u don't like that, don't do it for us. WE HAVE RULES, FELLINGS AND THE RIGHT TO CHOOSE WITH WHO WE SPEND OUR TIME, OFFERING OUR SERVICES!!! 
I think more than 3 calls from a person it’s already obsession !
BARBARA she’s on holiday since 1 week I think she got enough patience but like she said enough enough ! She wrote it here because it became too much !!!!!
I'm glad she wrote all of this cause im sure I could share my experience ! I know Barbara personally I know she had also plenty strange experience and this is alarm for us !

I will share pictures, 
And I find it disrespectful that people thing we have to answer for calls ! No we don’t have to answer for every calls !

This is not acceptable behaviour. Not at all. It is probably easy for us here to say now that you have learned the contact patterns of psychopaths and know better how to avoid them, but it is not us who got the bruises or were frightened for our lives. Someone like that should not be able to contact working girls to begin with.

I am sorry that you have to go through this, and I hope you have someone real to talk to (never mind us from the internet).

[zombie 359]

Jogge skrev, for 30 minutter siden:

Exiting conclusion from a girl who blame others for not being polite

As mentioned before I compare the working girls as professionals businesswomen who are doing at great job by selling services.
 

Unfortunately TS don’t see herself as a businesswoman who selling services. I don’t know what she is selling while I have never visited her. But I am pretty sure she is working alone with no pimp or even a phone girl. 
 

For the record - I am very experienced in buying services - not selling. 
 

Jeg tvivler ikke på du er ekspert i bundlinjer. Men du har tilsyneladende ikke forstået, at dette her handler om anstændighed, æresfølelse og selvværd. Næppe ord der nævnes ofte i Håndbog for Forretningsfolk. Vi taler her om kvinder, der er yderst populære i byen. Jeg har desværre ikke besøgt nogen af dem, og kommer heller ikke til det foreløbig. Disse populære kvinder kan måske bedre tillade sig at sige nogle sandheder, da de har en stor og trofast fanskare. Men det er også to kvinder, som virker begavede og har en stolthed over at være eminente i deres erhverv, som jo ikke er det mest presticiøse i verden. I det mindste bør mænd i Eroguide bakke dem op overfor andre mænds åbenlyse dårlig opførsel i stedet for at fyre så meget patronisende bull shit af.

[Chelly 77]

Lauersen skrev, for 9 minutter siden:

This is not acceptable behaviour. Not at all. It is probably easy for us here to say now that you have learned the contact patterns of psychopaths and know better how to avoid them, but it is not us who got the bruises or were frightened for our lives. Someone like that should not be able to contact working girls to begin with.

I am sorry that you have to go through this, and I hope you have someone real to talk to (never mind us from the internet).

Sad but there are many of this kind of people for example we can see here is also 2 3 of them .

Who could be abusive with girls if they say no. 

I really apreciate people  who try at least to understand, u cannot expect good things with this behaviour. 

One of the best comment and advice! Thank u! 

[Den_glade_amatør 5250]

Tak for at dele din historie med os, @Chelly. Den viser desværre alt for godt, hvilken persontype, der i nogen tilfælde kan gemme sig bag en lang række gentagne opkald. Selvfølgelig ikke altid, men hvordan skulle pigen være i stand til at kende forskel? Det er fuldt forståeligt, hvis pigen vælger at ignorere en så insisterende person. Din beretning viser også den kedelige side af dette miljø og hvor udsatte pigerne er. Noget, som den gruppe af mænd, som godt kan opføre sig ordentligt overfor pigerne måske ikke rigtigt kan sætte sig ind i. Helt sikkert en grim oplevelse, men godt, at det ikke endte værre for dig, @Chelly, trods alt. Håber, at du kan lægge oplevelsen bag dig og komme godt videre. Bedste tanker herfra.

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Mr. Sensual skrev, for 18 timer siden:

Jeg forstår ikke de mænd, der kan få sig selv til at være uværdige og disrespektfulde overfor pigerne.

You don’t have to understand clearly.

Strange life is strange — and enough is enough!!

[Guest tvr]

Chock Dims skrev, for 9 timer siden:

Det er en noget begrænset udsyn du har på andres mulige erhverv synes jeg.  Virkeligheden i min branche er en helt anden end du tilsyneladende antager.

Muligvis. Jeg ved jo ikke hvilken branche du er i, så jeg ved jo ikke engang om det er en branche jeg ved noget om. Måske ved jeg meget, måske ved jeg intet. Det ændrer dog ikke på det generelle: Du lader til at være lønmodtager (taler om din arbejdsgiver), og at der skal en god årsag/undskyldning til, for at han ringer til dig i ferien. Det tyder jo netop på at du ikke er selvstændig. Og at hele din indtægt ikke er afhænging af din egen tilgængelighed. Samt, naturligvis, at du formoder/forventer faktisk at have et job at komme tilbage til efter ferien. 

Chock Dims skrev, for 9 timer siden:

Det kommer ikke til at ske, så det eneste at gøre er blive ukontaktbar når man ikke vil kontaktes.

Det kan du muligvis have ret i. Men pigen gjorde ihvertfald et forsøg på at råbe folk op. At nogen ikke kan råbes op, at nogen ikke vil opføre sig anstændigt, er jo bare ikke i orden.

[Guest Chock Dims]

tvr skrev, for 24 minutter siden:

Muligvis. Jeg ved jo ikke hvilken branche du er i, så jeg ved jo ikke engang om det er en branche jeg ved noget om. Måske ved jeg meget, måske ved jeg intet. Det ændrer dog ikke på det generelle: Du lader til at være lønmodtager (taler om din arbejdsgiver), og at der skal en god årsag/undskyldning til, for at han ringer til dig i ferien. Det tyder jo netop på at du ikke er selvstændig. Og at hele din indtægt ikke er afhænging af din egen tilgængelighed. Samt, naturligvis, at du formoder/forventer faktisk at have et job at komme tilbage til efter ferien. 

Jeg er konsulent  hos et konsulentbureau og konsulenter kan godt være udstationeret i flere år hos en "arbejdsgiver" og stadig være konsulenter. Derfor kan ferie aftales med "arbejdsgiver". Men egentlig ligemeget da du ytrer dig ved antagelser.

Ovenstående har jo intet med det  sjusk TS lægger for dagen. Hensigten  med tråden er omtale som jeg tolker det. Det er de fleste tråde startet af de prostituerede. Det er næsten altid brok over ligegyldigheder som ingen kan gøre noget ved.

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Det kan du muligvis have ret i. Men pigen gjorde ihvertfald et forsøg på at råbe folk op. At nogen ikke kan råbes op, at nogen ikke vil opføre sig anstændigt, er jo bare ikke i orden.

Dem hun vil råbe op er jo ikke her. Det må være en meget lille procentdel af sexkøberne der læser med her, ellers ville der være flere skribenter end de 50-60 der skriver herinde.

Der er ikke så meget mere at skrive om emnet  så jeg holder mig  fra tråden. Jeg burde vide bedre end deltage i tråde startet af østeuropæiske prostituerede. Beklager

Redigeret 25. August, 2021 af Chock Dims

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Chock Dims skrev, for 52 minutter siden:

Jeg er konsulent  hos et konsulentbureau og konsulenter kan godt være udstationeret i flere år hos en "arbejdsgiver" og stadig være konsulenter. Derfor kan ferie aftales med "arbejdsgiver". Men egentlig ligemeget da du ytrer dig ved antagelser.

Ovenstående har jo intet med det  sjusk TS lægger for dagen. Hensigten  med tråden er omtale som jeg tolker det. Det er de fleste tråde startet af de prostituerede. Det er næsten altid brok over ligegyldigheder som ingen kan gøre noget ved.

Dem hun vil råbe op er jo ikke her. Det må være en meget lille procentdel af sexkøberne der læser med her, ellers ville der være flere skribenter end de 50-60 der skriver herinde.

Der er ikke så meget mere at skrive om emnet  så jeg holder mig  fra tråden. Jeg burde vide bedre end deltage i tråde startet af østeuropæiske prostituerede. Beklager

I’m gonna write this for the last time and I will end this conversation.

I’m saddened by your behavior and lack of empathy toward human “prostitutes” . I created this thread and from the 50 writer only you and @Jogge showed disperect and inhumanity ! but what I expect from a person who is looking “rough anal “ porn videos it’s shows how you two could thread a “eastern European prostitute “ and I’m afraid not only them . Your profile talking about yours personality without you guys would do.  And I would like to ask this kind of guys not only from the thread but also from me STAY away , scary and sad at the same time your behavior.

I can assume those who insist and behave badly is your kind of person. And I’m not judging I can see it when you write and the way you do guys . And what I can sense a little bit of racism towards Eastern European girls .

Respect and empathy you can’t teach . I will never let someone to get comfortable with disrespecting me and any other working girls it’s doesn’t matter Eastern European or not . 

As I said many people understood 80% what I’m trying to request the rest is here to create a bad atmosphere . I don’t find it normal to call someone on her /his holiday and to be insistent and leave a plenty of calls and messages

 

Hugs Barb 

 

Redigeret 25. August, 2021 af Barbarasmile1

[zombie 359]

Barbarasmile1 skrev, for 10 minutter siden:

PS: if you meant @Jogge the TS word by transsexual , I’m afraid I have to disappoint you, IM not . But I think you can find a thread where there is pretty much Description about my body parts. 

You can with every right accuse Jogge for being without any empathy, but the meaning of TS is in this context "TrådStarter" (starter of thread). I wouldn't blame you for the misinterpretation though 

[Chelly 77]

Chock Dims skrev, for 2 timer siden:

Jeg er konsulent  hos et konsulentbureau og konsulenter kan godt være udstationeret i flere år hos en "arbejdsgiver" og stadig være konsulenter. Derfor kan ferie aftales med "arbejdsgiver". Men egentlig ligemeget da du ytrer dig ved antagelser.

Ovenstående har jo intet med det  sjusk TS lægger for dagen. Hensigten  med tråden er omtale som jeg tolker det. Det er de fleste tråde startet af de prostituerede. Det er næsten altid brok over ligegyldigheder som ingen kan gøre noget ved.

Dem hun vil råbe op er jo ikke her. Det må være en meget lille procentdel af sexkøberne der læser med her, ellers ville der være flere skribenter end de 50-60 der skriver herinde.

Der er ikke så meget mere at skrive om emnet  så jeg holder mig  fra tråden. Jeg burde vide bedre end deltage i tråde startet af østeuropæiske prostituerede. Beklager

What u mean with "Eastern  European prostitutes"? Its sounds like you are racist, Do u feel superior by race or something? I don't wanna imagine how many girls throw u out, u seems like u' are. The type of the guy who become easy irritated and frustrated when a girl refuse to talk or if she refuze to do something she don't like.
Nobody have a problem with your opinion if you're respectful and dont cross de limits. With your last message u just show who u are. 

 

[Amazing Kimberly 244]

@Chelly I am devastated by what I have read!  I remembered a nightmare when I was forced to fight one of the clients because he tried to rape me without a condom.  I am a small woman but strong, athletic and he did not stand a chance against me.  Even though he was lying on my back with all his weight, I threw away his wretched body, bit his hand to the limit and ordered him to get out.  Frightened, he ran away almost naked.  It was a Danish for about 40 years.  Can you tell me who was that guy?  You should start a new topic to warn more girls!!! 

[Jogge 1727]

Amazing Kimberly skrev, for 6 timer siden:

@Chelly I am devastated by what I have read!  I remembered a nightmare when I was forced to fight one of the clients because he tried to rape me without a condom.  I am a small woman but strong, athletic and he did not stand a chance against me.  Even though he was lying on my back with all his weight, I threw away his wretched body, bit his hand to the limit and ordered him to get out.  Frightened, he ran away almost naked.  It was a Danish for about 40 years.  Can you tell me who was that guy?  You should start a new topic to warn more girls!!! 

Jeg synes det lyder som en sag for politiet. 

[Mr_Swingking 418]

Lauersen skrev, den 25.8.2021 at 00:16:

This is not acceptable behaviour. Not at all. It is probably easy for us here to say now that you have learned the contact patterns of psychopaths and know better how to avoid them, but it is not us who got the bruises or were frightened for our lives. Someone like that should not be able to contact working girls to begin with.

I am sorry that you have to go through this, and I hope you have someone real to talk to (never mind us from the internet).

Fejl

@Chelly

Redigeret 30. August, 2021 af Mr_Swingking

[Liverpool 887]

Jeg synes, at der er stor forskel på vold og stalking, og alm. kunder, som sender en besked, blot fordi de ikke lige har set efter, som folk er på ferie.

Stalking og vold er naturligvis ikke acceptabelt. Ingen grund til at diskutere det yderligere. Det er en politisag.

 

Vi kender alle til, at der altid er nogen som ikke høre efter, og skal have tingene gentaget. Nogen som har glemt deres pas til rejsen. Dem som vover over. Dem som ringer til IT uden at undersøge sagen selv. Konen som igen igen glemmer at slå toiletbrættet op  Det er menneskelig natur. 

Er man en eftertragtet pige, hvis nummer er kodet ind i et hav af telefoner, så må man da forvente, at en vis PROCENTDEL, laver den fejl, at de ikke undersøger, om pigen er på ferie. Det er naturligvis surt for Barbara Smile, og ikke fair overfor Barbara. Men igen menneskelig natur.

 

I stedet for at blive super sur over et problem, som det ikke står i Barbara Smiles magt at ændre, så burde Barbara Smile da blot få sig et extra Simkort. Større er problemet da ikke imvho. 

 

En græker sagde engang i oldtiden, at man skal ikke bekymre sig om ting, om man ikke selv kan ændre.

 

Brug ikke kræfter på at irættesætte folks natur, som ikke står at ændre, men vælg derimod en meget let og billig løsning. Få dig et ekstra Simkort.

God ferie and no stress 

 

 

 

Redigeret 30. August, 2021 af Liverpool

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Chelly skrev, den 25.8.2021 at 11:13:

What u mean with "Eastern  European prostitutes"? Its sounds like you are racist, Do u feel superior by race or something? I don't wanna imagine how many girls throw u out, u seems like u' are. The type of the guy who become easy irritated and frustrated when a girl refuse to talk or if she refuze to do something she don't like.
Nobody have a problem with your opinion if you're respectful and dont cross de limits. With your last message u just show who u are. 

 

I don't think he necessarily is a racist. Just a plain asshole  But the common denomination for these besserwisser-guys in here, is a pure example how stoneaged a lot of men are. They are eager to show their technological solutions, but none of these sad types does defend the honour of a woman, who is sex-worker. And none of them condemn the behaviour of sociopathic men. Offcourse it's a hard fight against male chauvinism. But we've to start some place.

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zombie skrev, for 21 minutter siden:

I don't think he necessarily is a racist. Just a plain asshole  But the common denomination for these besserwisser-guys

[Jogge 1727]

Aarhuselsker skrev, for 15 minutter siden:

zombie skrev, for 38 minutter siden:

I don't think he necessarily is a racist. Just a plain asshole  But the common denomination for these besserwisser-guys in here, is a pure example how stoneaged a lot of men are. They are eager to show their technological solutions, but none of these sad types does defend the honour of a woman, who is sex-worker. And none of them condemn the behaviour of sociopathic men. Offcourse it's a hard fight against male chauvinism. But we've to start some place.

Og således kom vi vist hele vejen rundt om generaliseringer