C.Emily.

Ps. I did take Mr FlemmingP deeper in my ass and was more eager to have him to fuck the life out of me while I was softly asking for it. Not because I knew he might write about it. It was because he's a good man and knew that to truly get a woman (even with high sexuality like mine) to dive into deep pleasures they have to feel safe and well treated.

I see your point but as it happens we are not fine dining establishments, even though some of us share many of the same goals and values in our work of service. As an old sommelier I know.. It is a reality that the bad apples and individuals, in providers as well as guests, make it harder for some of us. I do not in any way discredit the importance of this website and the reviews. I am for them. All the people whom I welcome and spend time with have the same right to write a review of me online after the meeting, may the warn me about it beforehand or not. Why I like the reviews is because I truly care about my guests' enjoyment and safety. I only asked mr FlemmingP not to write explicit/graphic about our date but in the end it was his choice. The only thing I'm trying to voice here is that it turns me on and makes me feel supported and seen when my guests extend me the same safety back, like Mr FlemmingP did here, by sharing some online credibility. It saddened me that your instant thought and worry was to discredit the review and experience when you read that he had included his online alias to me when it could have been seen as a gentlemanly gesture of to quote "letting me know I'm not meeting a random psycho". When a food critic from Politiken comes to a new wine&dine in town, the owner indeed does rally the staff up, will pop the nice bubbles and hover around the table. But everyone knows who they are (most knowing that will tell about their arrival in advance) and all the cards are on the table. It seems you are a person who values authenticity and I see now that your motive is purely not to be a supporter of food critics who will take the special treatment and bubbles and then wrote an amazing review as a thank you and hence be bought out by the establishment. But why your metaphor doesn't work here. The risk providers take every time when meeting someone new are *far greater* than just simply losing some money or time. However it's my own choice and luckily I do like my lovely guests and want to give them the best. It's not the same for some other providers out there. Thank you for an interesting exchange. I appreciate you answering and sharing your thoughts. XX, Emily

Reviews and online presence is valuable for both parties included in this business. Intimate services (especially when working incall) can be a nervous/unsafe experience for providers, as well as the guests. I appreciate and support reviews as they are a great tool to gain credibility in an unregulated and stigmatized field where people are still ready to invest a lot of their safety and money. I think it speaks volumes for Flemming P's character here, that he chose to inclose his alias when reaching out. For me it was the main reason why I chose to see him. If your attitude is automatically not to inclose your online alias because you're assuming that the service provider will be more relaxed or performing with less professionalism or care, it's very sad and tells a lot about how you guests (don't want to use the word gentlemen as there are all gender, couples etc out there) need to be wary of bad experiences and scammers. And how we on the other side suffer from the same. In the UK for example this is approached much better (providers rate their guests more on the platforms etc.) and guests use more time on selecting and are more aware in their consumerism on the overall communication and professionalism rather than just choosing based on the fetish or looks. I wonder if there is another purpose on in your mind than of just wanting to protect the guests safety and that way not allowing that same protection to the providers who are willing to take the same risk everyday for their guests, mister Angel? Kisses, Emily C.