Beeflyse

I have tried stimulating the prostate myself and have somebody else doing it. It works ok when I do it myself and it can get me off and even increase the intensity of my orgasm, but it's not something I do very often. I have a couple of times tried getting a blowjob and at the same time have somebody playing with a finger in my butt but that did not work at all and only made me limp. Not sure it that means I just have not gotten it right or if it is just not my thing. I really like some gentle pressure/caressing/licking around the entry though, that can really turn me on.

Masturbation is a topic discussed too little! What I use depends on the reasons I masturbate. Sometimes I do it just to relieve stress, perhaps sounds awkward but to me it can have a general soothing effect and for that I use porn to get me going. I tend to "get off" on porn which is not the kind of sex I normally have, so I guess it is a way of living out fantasies. I have tried different types of online sex (chatforums etc) but generally I think it takes so much work to find somebody who is at the same level as you are so by the time you find somebody, the moment is gone. I guess it has to do with the unfortunate reality that there are like 10:1 ratio of men/women in the chat forums. So lately I have abandoned those completely. Other times, I masturbate because I am simply just horny and then I don't need anyone external stimuli. My imagination works perfectly fine and I prefer to do it in the shower.

I think any system for verification that works is a good system. Of course the girls/ladies have to consider their safety and it is up to us visting them to provide those assurances.