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@Verten From your text I understood that you are no longer in a relationship with her? May I ask if your break-up was caused by her being a sex worker?

Thanks for the answer. Now we are doing something similar. She doesn't do outcalls but only incall services and lets me know for how long she has someone and gives me the person's number. I almost went crazy before we did that... Once we were texting and she said she needs to go for the next 1.5 hours as she had someone and when she is done she would call me to finish the conversation. She did not call for more than 3 hours and I was really, really worried what happened and felt powerless. It turned out it was one of her regulars who was extra horny this day and wanted to extend the booking. I felt bad that she has forgotten about me and we needed to talk about something important that day. Of course, we talked this through and agreed a small message when something like that happens would be nice. How do you deal with people staring at your girlfriend when you are out for a walk? Did you have any problems with that? Or someone approaching her when you are together?

Thank you all for the answers! To expand a bit on the topic here are some more questions I would like to read some opinions about. What are the cons of dating a sex worker? What are the topics you as a sex worker would rather not talk about with your boyfriend? @Verten Have you ever been concerned about your girlfriend's safety? My girlfriend is working as an independent escort in a private apartment where there is no one to protect her if the need be. She assured me she is okay and never had a problem with that but I am still uneasy. How do you deal with that? How does it work when the kids come?

Last year I unwillingly understood from my social media that my ex-girlfriend was being a sex worker in a country where she emigrated when we broke up. I knew she was having a normal job there but I was not aware about this second job of hers. After some talking and spending time together we rebuilt our relationship and now we are back together. We love each other! She had a dream to turn a family land to a small paradise and needed lots of money for it. I wanted to provide the money but she wanted it to be done with her own savings. It turned out that is why she wanted to break up with me, to go someone where she can earn it and not feel guilty that she is cheating on me. Now that I know about it, we figured out we can again be together. Even though, now she is closer to achieving her dream and getting all the budget sorted, she really liked working as a sex worker and does not intend to stop. She enjoyed meeting new people and having exciting hours with them in bed, which I don't mind but I am still insecure about it. It would be very helpful if any sex workers or anyone reading here with same or similar case can share their experiences with having a relationship between a sex worker girl and a normal and faithful guy, who never paid for sex. How does it work in the long run? Is it possible to have a good relationship from a distance (3-4 weeks a year) with a sex worker? Is there something I should be more cautious about now in this kind of relationship? I made the mistake to read some of the reviews she had from customers and it felt like a déjà-vu. Most of them were describing a good love sex, a girlfriend like behaviour. Should there be any difference in the behaviour of a paid companion sex date and a real girlfriend date or the idea is to feel and be the same? Is the sex any different? After all she is having much more sex than I am, is it going to be neglected when done with the partner? How do sex workers distinguish the private life from the professional? Any advices will be appreciated!