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Excuse me please. I hope you can forgive me for the inconvenience - I am not Danish and have not yet learned the Danish language. I hope you can accept my writing in English ... and please forgive the other users who reply to me in English. It is of course a Danish forum.

I do. Misunderstandings happen. We're all human ... and we can talk to each other ... in that case I'm very glad we did

I need to correct what I said about sebmus. We wrote privately, it was a misunderstanding, he explained it to me, apologized, removed or replaced his confused smiley and assured me that he always respects other people and their privacy, does not want to embarrass or make anyone sad and actually a sweet boy is (his words). I couldn't remove the sentence about sebmus behavior and I promised him to explain it here. In the private messages he was very emphatic and I believe him.

I cannot thank your words enough. Empathy is probably a foreign word for some people. When I look at the smiley that I received from sebmus/ under the post where I told the meeting on Wednesday ... I am once again amazed at so much "empathy" ... For Sherlock personally, I would like to say that your contributions show an eloquent, sensitive person. A gentleman who is absolutely discreet and who would never embarrass another person. The world needs more of its kind ...

That's how it should be ... and that's how everyone has behaved so far ... and there have been many encounters over the years ... but everyone was discreet and I never questioned that it could be different until yesterday ... and I really hope that this was a "freak of nature" and that encounters like that shouldn't be repeated. That is why I am particularly pleased when male members appreciate the privacy of GP and not only expect discretion from us.

Discretion should apply to both parties. For me that's not a question, it goes without saying. Discretion is offered, but is also expected ...

Thanks for your contribution. This is very valuable to me. In spite of my brief summary, you realized that it was a really precarious situation for me. I am actually a person who masters every situation with dignity But yesterday... I felt helpless, lost and uncomfortable for the first time in my life ...

How Much Envy is Healthy? There is competition in every industry, which is actually good when you look at it healthily. This can stimulate one's own progress, regardless of whether it is a company, a restaurant or ... In the erotic industry, competition is often associated with envy, there is too little collegiality. The adage "You get praise and recognition for free, you have to work hard to get envy" is not uncommon in this business. In fact, I have met many women over the years who have been jealous, women of various formats who could be proud of themselves, but they preferred to envy the lives of others and sabotage them when they got the chance. I usually recognize well-disguised acts, at least from a sabotage point of view, and look at them with a smile or I look at it funny and I act accordingly, this usually leads to the sabotage continuing and the saboteur betraying herself. But everyone is different and still, maybe I've only meet women who were jealous and yet civilized. I wonder: How far does a woman go who is jealous and a little rough in her personality: Will she be one single troublemaker? Is she just trying to sabotage everything? Is she creating male profiles on a forum to cover up her actions? Will she continue her actions when the male profiles are blocked? ... I know that such behavior is a praise for the hated and sabotaged woman, but I still want to know from colleagues who have experienced this themselves how they reacted to it? Perhaps a woman who has tried to sabotage another woman herself will respond and explain why she did it (?). It would also be interesting to know what men as customers think when they notice something like this? Do you react to it as a man or do you say nothing at all? What do you think when you notice something like this? Would you ever visit a woman who was obviously sabotaging someone else? I'm looking forward to an interesting discussion, hopefully without sabotage.

That is a completely absurd representation. They weren't there and I didn't play with anyone.

Thank you for telling us about your experience. My experience was yesterday in the street cafe where I had a cozy meeting with my 82j. grandma for coffee and cake and a customer from Denmark addressed me by my work name, not enough of it, my grandma told him that her granddaughter is "xy" and not Magnolia, he said he had mistaken me, but his sat down with us at the table and talked comfortably with my grandma ... I don't want to go into details, but I've never felt this uncomfortable ...

Thanks for your nice words. I really appreciate that. People are not all the same, I know that. Even so, everyone presents themselves exclusively to themselves and exclusively to their own personality with their own behavior ... but that is a separate topic. This thread is all about discretion and I'm really excited to hear that customers respect GP's privacy. At this point, many thanks to Nannas Hjørne, who also shared her experiences as a girl on the subject of discretion.

I'm really happy to hear that ....

I think you are misinterpreting my post. I have no wishes for answers, just a debate about discretion in the erotik industry. You are welcome to express your opinion on the topic.

If you read my post correctly it is not difficult to see that my general questions arose from a situation where I had to realize that there are obviously people who do not take discretion in this trade for granted.

How discreet are you (?) I never had to ask this question - I am absolutely discreet myself and automatically thought that the other side (the customers) are just as discreet. I'm not new to the sex business and discretion is as natural to me in this business as the " Our Father" in church, but I experienced a pretty macabre situation yesterday( I don't want to publish the details). Actually, I'm at home in Germany right now and enjoy my free time, which for me only means a serious, conservative life, far away from the "red lanterns". My question is: how do you act when you meet me in a private setting? Are you talking to me? Do you talk to me when it's obvious that I'm private, that maybe my family is with me? Why?... Personally, I would never address a customer out there, I take that for granted... but there are obviously people who cannot imagine that GP also lead a life outside of this business. Actually I thought that discretion applies equally to both sides, obviously I was wrong ...

I understand: we would not come to an agreement. But I like your direct manner.

I will of course tell you the area when you request an appointment. The exact address I will give you only after the appointment confirmedion because I really work according to appointments and I want to avoid someone standing at the door unannounced. I take a break of 1 hour or 1.5 hours between appointments. I need the time for myself and don't want to be disturbed because a customer who has received the address too early is at the door too early. Actually simple.

You and only you freaked out, fantasize and lie. When you invented an imaginary pimp for me, you "took care of me". What stories invented the non-existent pimp? You wrote that the pimp who only exists in your imagination made up stories - which stories? The only person on this forum who fantasizes, lies, freaked out and makes up stories is just you. If you want peace and quiet from me, then stand by your actions and at least admit that you made up a pimp and your dirty slander on this forum because you are a bad person and a liar. You downgrade and defame me. That you intended to ask me a discriminatory question: "Can I keep my money to myself?" Because you wanted to denounce me. My offense is only that my identity card contains a "D" and not a "DK", which means that as a foreign girl you will consider me inferior and you will not apologize to a foreigner. Also, refrain from commenting on my posts when I speak to other people in person, when I am so bad and just an inferior foreigner in your eyes. Stop playing the clown / troll, it's really just a your facade to pretend to be ignorant and to make yourself heard with stupid comments. I am a grown, confident and intelligent young woman. I'm firm in life with both feet and I don't have to let me tremble just because I'm not a Dane. If you or a Danish girl have crossed border to Germany like me to Denmark then you are just as foreign there like as me in Denmark. Does a Danish girl on the other side of the barrier automatically become less worthy or lose her intelligence? No? It's just the others, the foreign - we forget our brain on the border so that we can be considered stupid in Denmark and so that everyone insults and slander us. I hope that people like you belong to the minority in Denmark, otherwise I would have been very wrong about this nation. Actually a neighboring country and yet you are stigmatized, slandered and defamed in this forum by a person like you, just because me are not a Dane and you and only you make it clear in your posts how little value a foreign girl is in your eyes. The whole thing is very sad but I still feel much compassion for you.

This is not about different mindsets but about the fact that the thread starter -cockycockysuckysucky2/invented an imaginary pimp for me even though he himself admits not to know me, and he spreads these lies as a supposed fact in this forum. Then he constantly tries to talk himself out of it with weak excuses. He doesn't apologize. No. He does not see this as a mistake. No. He just continues to try to indirectly present his lies as supposed facts. I didn't know that stigmatizing others, making up stories and spreading lies about other people is desirable in this forum. I am a girl and am listed on this forum as me and not an anonymous male member and the thread starter here is damaging my reputation with its lies. Of course, I won't let lies like this rest. Why should I let this disrespectful person so dirty me? I do not think that it is wrong to defend yourself if you are spat at by a user with poison and bile and are also attacked.

A person without a conscience. So do you know what you're writing and admit that you purposely made up the pimp and spread lies about me? Or are you indirectly trying to repeatedly present your lies as imaginary facts made up by yourself. Pretty weak behavior.

When a person just thinks something, it happens in their brain and you must have a reason to think that way. I don't think my personality or demeanor makes anyone "think" so hideously. Apart from that, they publicly presented it as a fact, or rather made up the pimp and spread lies about me. Judging from their appearance here, this was done on purpose. At the end of the day, they try to talk their way out with very weak excuses. What do you see when you look in the mirror? An imaginary pimp who fantasizes out of boredom, stigmatizes people and spreads lies. A sad illusion of a pitiable personality.

That didn't stop you from attacking me personally and spreading lies about me. You are not apologizing for it. No. You don't admit your mistake, you just write one nonsense at a time. Now would you like to answer the question whose pimp you mean? You write "her pimp" who do you mean by that? whose pimp?

There is no point with you. You are incorrigible. A newly created profile was probably created from the start to cause this Sodom and Gomora here. Maybe you are actually a pimp or a clinic owner, I don't know. I only see facts that you are disrespectful to other people, that you fantasize, make up stories, stigmatize people, spread lies, simply ignore factual questions and comments or twist facts and try to attack. A personality like out of a picture book.

No my dear I'm not passive aggressive, that's just you alone. I asked a simple question: whose pimp did you mean by "her pimp"? A pimp who makes up stories, but in this thread you are the only person who obviously makes up stories. Did you mean that you are the imaginary pimp? By whom? You wrote "her pimp" - from whom the pimp?

My dear, I think it's absolutely not okay when people / women are exploited. I also don't think it's okay that mostly very young girls work almost for free under nasty conditions. I also don't think it's okay when women consume drugs and call themselves "Partie Girl". I am an absolute opponent of cheap prices, I am also an absolute opponent of unprotected sexual practices. However, I've been in this business for a long time, I've seen a lot and have knowledge of a lot ... I know Danish girls and foreign girls who work cheaply and offer a service that some foreign girls and probably some Danish girls would never do. I think the two classes in this forum (Danish / non-Danish) are absolutely not in order. If you read through here you will quickly see that everything that is Danish is supposedly "better" than that which comes from abroad. Why do such prejudices exist? For me it is a bit strange to see a person as good or probably less good only because of their origin.